Is he going to marry me or am I fooling myself?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He enticed me to move to another country with him in our second year together and within weeks of living together I knew I wanted to marry him. He moved to further his career and is now 35. Unfortunately, I ...
A. 10 July 2010: Can you see the theme here, its all about him....every little thing. When is it going to be all about you? Dont let him keep giving you empty promises and as they say 'wasting the pretty'. Time is ticking, to me...its ultimatum time. But you ... (read in full...)
I cheated on her 3 years ago and now she doesn't believe me or trust me
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now. During our first year of dating o cheated on her now she doesn't believe anything that I say I'm doing when I'm not with her!...
A. 6 July 2010: Trust is imperative in a relationship. Without it, you have nothing. You broke the trust, albeit a while ago...and she hasnt been able to heal or let go of that fear of you possibly hurting her again. Time wont fix this unfortunately. Good luck.... (read in full...)
I have broken it off because I cant take the lies any more, but really I want him to change so we can be together again...
Q. Okay so I have been seeing this guy for a year and a half and I do so much for him I give him money and all lately I been asking him to make me his girlfriend, he is talking about he not ready! well everytime I go on his facebook its always ...
A. 6 July 2010: You can never ever make a man change...what you see is what you get. Always. You deserve better.... :-)... (read in full...)
Should I just delete him out of my life?
Q. My boyfriend just broke up with me about a week ago. Should I delete him off facebook? Should I take him out of my life? He says one day he wants to be friends, but all I see is him wanting to be around other girls. He doesn't have a lot of friends ...
A. 6 July 2010: Absolutely, you now deserve the chance to look to the future...one without him in it. Go find the man where the last thing he would want to do is break up! :-)... (read in full...)
How to break up with my fiance who is much older than me.
Q. hi well i just joined and i am seriously stuck, i have been with my fiance for 2 yrs in june and engaged for 9 months. i am 24 this year and my fiance has just turned 43, it is a huge age difference and when we first got together i had no problems ...
A. 23 May 2010: Honest is always the best way to go, even if its a bitter pill to swallow (so to speak). This is an issue to you, so its really valid and necessary you tell him whats on your mind. Not only for yourself, but for him too. Breaking up is hard to ... (read in full...)
My b/f is always looking for sex
Q. Hey! What should i do about my forever-horny boyfriend?? Its kinda awkward because hes always asking me to have phone sex with him and real sex but im not sure if im ready, can anyone help please??...
A. 23 May 2010: Please please please dont hurry into anything that your not fully ready for as you will have regrets I promise you. It is wrong of him to pressure you as you should be 16 legally for all that sort of thing. If he loved you he should understand and ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me and says she wants to be friends
Q. omg u guys. The girl I wuz in a relationship with broke up with me last month because she said that she didnt know if she wanted a serious relationship right now. That's fine 6ut now she tell me she still tells me she wants to be just friends for ...
A. 23 May 2010: Im sorry to say, if she broke up with you then chances are there will be no re-union. Its your heart on the line. Its all very well for her to want to be friends, but you want more and unless you think you can handle being friends with her under ... (read in full...)
Why has my husband gone off sex?
Q. What are the reasons for a married man to completely gone of sex? I really don't know what to think.. This is my husband ,after 26 years... Around 4 years ago ,he stopped touching,having any sexual feelings all together. Almost feels like a spell......
A. 22 May 2010: You need to sit down with him and make him discuss this issue with you. You have a right to know whats going on because of being half of a whole partnership. If its medical, you can seek support and medication. If you need to bring the spark ... (read in full...)
My husband's best friend says he is just my secret admirer but I am worried that he might one day ask for sex
Q. when i met my husband 2 years ago, he had his best friend whom they have schooled with from high school to college. the friend is married to a a beautiful charming lady who is now my friend. the crazy thing is that this guy(my husband's friend) fell ...
A. 19 May 2010: Hmm...with all respect... this guy is a weasel. He is happy to go about stringing you along and using your emotions to benefit him. He wants to keep things secret because a) he doesnt want to lose his mate and b)be a divorcee if the wife ever ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to leave someone you love but who constantly puts you down?
Q. I love my wife dearly, i would do anything for her... Sometimes she's this angel I love and adore so much and is so nice to me but the next minute she critisizes everything I do and puts me down, questioning me all the time, putting words in my ...
A. 19 May 2010: Your wife must be very insecure deep inside to feel the need to be constantly belittling and bringing others down, including you. It sounds like you have stress and depression from this situation. So its a big negative in your life. A loving ... (read in full...)
Is there hope for me to finally recover from this heartbreak?
Q. I have not heard from a former lover who is married and i emailed to let them know i apologize for our break up. I finally came to a conclusion that this person has moved on and i am going to not deal with this again. I am involving myself in other ...
A. 19 May 2010: Yes, they have moved on. You have the right direction now. Dont run all the scenarios through your head, your not doing yourself any favours. Just keep busy and give yourself time. Look to the future and not the past. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Does he love me too much?
Q. Hey all, Here's the deal: i had a crush on a boy for four years, beginning in 6th grade. I'll let him remain anonymous. Recently we agreed to go out, and frankly it's becoming a lot. When he kisses me he gets violent, like i'll leave him if he ...
A. 19 May 2010: Please dont go there. This guy has major control/jealousy issues. You dont deserve to be in a negative or violent relationship. Do yourself a favour, move on. ... (read in full...)
He dumped me on my birthday! Help!
Q. Help plz!!!!!!!!! My boyfriend said he had a suprise for me on my b-day and then for the suprize he dumped me. Guess what my b-day was 3 wks ago and I still cant get ovr him what shuld ii do...
A. 19 May 2010: This guy is a loser. He gave you the best present you could ever get....getting rid of him. I know it hurts, I know its hard...move on...as there are other guys out there that wont want to dump you on your birthday and treat you special, like the ... (read in full...)
I need a therapist for a couple of issues but don't think my parents will be okay with it!
Q. Okay, I feel desparate to see a Therapist because I'm going through a rough patch in my life from discovering that I'm gay and being bullied because of my weight and too much to handle but I can't really go about it with my parents they think I will ...
A. 19 May 2010: If you have a good relationship generally with your parents, try to give them a little credit. If they love you, they will support you and would like to think that they could help you during your time of crisis. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Do women love being romanced?
Q. Do women love romance? A romantic dinner walk or special place to go?...
A. 19 May 2010: I can only speak from an older womans perspective...but YES YES YES. As long as its not over the top when you first start dating....going to the trouble to impress someone is a great indicator as to how someone feels about you. ... (read in full...)
Should I respond to my ex's email even though I know she is just stringing me along in case it doesn't work out with her new guy?
Q. Me and my ex girlfriend broke up about 2 weeks ago. We were going out for a year and a half. She always said that she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me. But then one day she started to act all distant and started to ignore me. We then ...
A. 19 May 2010: Delete the email. Its just her guilty conscience. Go find the girl who doesnt want to leave you.... (read in full...)
Why does my wife always tell me about the girls who are checking me out? I am only there to dance with her!
Q. Ok so my wife of 13 years and I go out to clubs and go dancing. We both love to dance and have a great time. One thing that drives me crazy is that she keeps telling me about other girls that are checking me out. I am there do dance with her. I dont ...
A. 19 May 2010: Maybe she wants you to be aware that you are still very 'marketable'. Its a really great compliment to be checked out by the opposite sex. Maybe its just her way to try to make you feel good, by bringing it to your attention...because of the fact ... (read in full...)
I feel like I deserved to be molested, can anyone help me?
Q. I've been molested, help! I feel like I deserved it for some reason and i blame myself for what he did to me. :( I'm extremely ashamed and embarrassed by this situation, and I'm constantly scared... any help?...
A. 19 May 2010: Hello
No one EVER deserves to be treated that way. If anyone is to be ashamed its to be the molester, not you. I can understand its embarrasing, but you have to talk to someone about this. You need to report this person so they can be held acc... (read in full...)
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