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writes:Hey!What should i do about my forever-horny boyfriend?? Its kinda awkward because hes always asking me to have phone sex with him and real sex but im not sure if im ready, can anyone help please??
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): Wait! Wait! Wait! Until you understand what real sex means in a real relationship don't do it. Regret is a long time.
I would dump your boyfriend. He is not respecting you and is pressuring you to do what he wants. Usually when boys get what they are after they see you as easy and dump you. Respect your self.
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reader, Aussiemum  +, writes (23 May 2010):
Please please please dont hurry into anything that your not fully ready for as you will have regrets I promise you. It is wrong of him to pressure you as you should be 16 legally for all that sort of thing. If he loved you he should understand and respect your feelings on this. It is important. I would be restraining and this in itself will be a very good test, if he stays in the picture and waits for you then it will be worth it. But...if sex is just all he is looking for, then he wont wait long...he will move on. And through that in itself you would have saved yourself heartbreak and misery. Wait for someone who you love and loves you back and wants to put your feelings first. You wont be sorry. Good luck!
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (22 May 2010):
 Lots of teenage boys are like that! However, it comes down to a question of respect at the end of the day. If you have made it clear that you are unhappy to get into that sort of relationship and he continues to pester you...it means he is more interested in having sex with anyone, rather than you in particular. You should ditch him for someone with a greater range of hobbies!
There is a lot of peer pressure on teenagers these days to get into sexual relationships early. However, you would be wise to wait until you are sure this boy really likes you, rather than looking for a body to experiment on. I think you should wait a few years - the law says 16 for a reason. Sex is not just physical, but it is about being emotionally ready and often young girls such as yourself feel they should be 'doing it' to keep up with the crowd. However the strong, mature thing to do is to wait until you feel ready and confident that the boy is really into you and not just after one thing!
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