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i study psychology and have had many various instances in my life where i felt like i was so confused and had no one to talk to, a couple of times i asked questions on dearcupid, and i felt supported by the people who answered me, i want to make other people feel like they have more options than they think and that people are here to help them.
I have been in 3 main relationships, and have lots of experience from those, atm i am in an unsteady relationship with my newest boyfriend (we have been together for 6 months now) and i am trying to find ways to make him and myself happy.
i hope that you appreciate the answers that i give and if you have any questions for me personally just message me
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My friend's g/f is jealous because he talks to me, what do you think?
Q. I have a guy friend, that i talk to on the phone, he tells me that when he talks to me i help him sleep better. But he have a girlfriend that is jealous of our firendship. She said that she don't want us talking on the phone or even talking at all. ...
A. 21 February 2009: well put yourself in his gfs place. if u had a boyfriend you love would you want him talking to another girl everynight on the phone to help him sleep, wouldnt you want to talk to ur bf not have his friend talking to him all night. perhaps talk abut ... (read in full...)
Is it possible I could get pregnant if only on the pill for four days?
Q. Hi, I'm really worried, I've just started having unprotected sex with my boyfriend but don't worry, we haven't been stupid and I'm on the pill... but the first time we did I was only on the pill for four days! We looked it up but it said there was ...
A. 21 February 2009: after you take your first pill you should be protected
but theres not a 100% protection rate, as your hormone levels would not have stablised, but after about 4 you should be protected enough. so i wouldnt spend all your time worrying about it :) w... (read in full...)
Is my penis small or does size even matter at all?
Q. I am a 6' tall male i am slender/athletic. at times i feel like my penis is small but other times i think it is a good size. My penis size is around erect 6" long, 5 1/2" thick and flaccid 3 3/4" long, 4" thick. Is that small or does size really ...
A. 18 February 2009: its not small so i wudnt worry about it tbh and as long as you give good oral pleasure then i dont think theyd be fussed either way :)... (read in full...)
Should I buy him a better present next time or is he not being fair on me?
Q. Heya, these are the presents I bought for my valentines. I though about them really carefully before I bought them and each one of them has a meaning behind it. A teddy bear (it was a erally cute valentines one and reminded me of him because ...
A. 15 February 2009: tell him hes being silly and you put a lot of effort into those presents lol i was in a long distance relationship for 2 years and i agree that you make these small occasions all the more special with your gifts, i do agree maybe they are unmascul... (read in full...)
Would seeing the scars on my thigh put a guy off?
Q. About a year and a half ago, I experimented a little in the way of self harm (cutting) when I got angry/upset. On the two occasions I did it, I was very drunk. On the second occasion that it happened, I was extremely drunk and was cutting my leg a ...
A. 15 February 2009: i have a lot of scars, when i was younger i was a bit of a tom-boy i suppose, i have a long scar down my arm, and many scars on my legs and knees, and as far as im aware of it hasnt put off any of my boyfriends, if someone really loves you they wont ... (read in full...)
How does she feel, is she just being friendly or does she want more?
Q. This girl I know has a massive hang-up with her ex bf, he dumped her and she still isnt over it even though it was about 6 months ago. since then we've got to know each other really well and become really close friends she says alot that im the only ...
A. 15 February 2009: hiya! first of all, are you sure that she STILL has a hang up about her ex, have you talked to her abou how she feels about him? perhaps if you slip him into a causal conversation and see how she reacts. if she doesnt seem to care and says she is ... (read in full...)
My crush makes me confused, your comments please?
Q. there's this guy i've known for about 4 months now whom i have a crush on.. here are some facts that just confuses me too much. 1. i caught him staring at me so many times. 2. he cares about my feelings. im not sure but that might be his person...
A. 15 February 2009: i think this guy really likes you, all the behaviours show that hes really into you and wishes he could have you, the thing with his gf, i think perhaps he would rather be with you, but hes not sure if you want him back in the same way and maybe ... (read in full...)
My b/f seems to pick fights with me over everything, how can I stop him?
Q. How is it possible for two people to love each other and constantly fight? My b/f seems to pick fights with me over everything and I don't know how to stop him. It seems I can't make a comment about anything. The other night, we were watching a ...
A. 15 February 2009: me and my boyfriend used to argue all the time about the most insignificant of things, it stil happens and blows into a full argument and often results in both of us becoming very upset, recently however we have both talked about our actions and ... (read in full...)
I have clitoridean orgasms, but not during sex, what's wrong?
Q. Im having A MAJOR NIGHTMARE I can orgasm with clitorial stimulation. But I cant have one during sex ! no matter how hard we try. weve tried positions and everything ! WHATS WRONG WITH ME??????? I WILL EXPLODE ! [Moderator's note: You say you ca...
A. 15 February 2009: lol you seem very vexed about this situation
basically i am the same
i can orgasm with clitoral stimulation, but not during penetrative sex. however i have found ways around this, trying different positions can change the way in which he penetrat... (read in full...)
I want to be able to date boys but I'm scared since I was raped by my friend's uncle!
Q. I was raped by my friends uncle when I slept over at her house when we were 13 (about two years ago). He was visiting from out of town, and he raped me while I was in bed (my friend slept in a separate bedroom because her parents didn't want us up ...
A. 15 February 2009: hi, i have not had the experiences you have had in this context, but i study psychology and i think that in order for you to get over the traumatic event you have experienced and to begin to trust boys and men you may need to consider some ... (read in full...)
Do you consider eczema a turn off?
Q. Hi guys, I used to suffer from severe eczema, now its recently cleared up although I do get the occasional redness, not bad or anything, just the odd red patch around the body, never any on my face or anything. I was just wondering if most of you ...
A. 15 February 2009: i have eczema in a small patch on my arm and i have dry skin around my nose, and it certainly hasnt turned off my past boyfriends. and as Gina said, it doesnt really matter becuase people see past those things as we love people for who they are, not ... (read in full...)
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