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writes:I have a guy friend, that i talk to on the phone, he tells me that when he talks to me i help him sleep better. But he have a girlfriend that is jealous of our firendship. She said that she don't want us talking on the phone or even talking at all. But theres nothing goin on between us we just friends. He said that he said he's not goin to stop talking to me just cause his girlfriend is jealous. Should i feel the same or not??????
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reader, aunty jess  +, writes (21 February 2009):
 well put yourself in his gfs place. if u had a boyfriend you love would you want him talking to another girl everynight on the phone to help him sleep, wouldnt you want to talk to ur bf not have his friend talking to him all night. perhaps talk abut it with her and say that you have no other intentions apart from to be friends with him, if that is how you feel. or just tell ur mate to keep her on a leash and tell her that nothings going on between you
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reader, zelks +, writes (21 February 2009):
in all honesty that would bother me as well but what matters is what should you do about it? nothing! dont stress about it. if he's comfortable enough to talk to u and says that he is not going to stop then neither should you. his girlfriend is his problem, not yours. if needs your help concerning the issue than that is a differnt story but it seems to me that he doesnt.
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reader, lwstudent +, writes (21 February 2009):
for whatever reason his girlf is feeling insecure, it is good that your friend is sticking up for your friendship. Spend sometime alone with her and talk to her, her worries may be put to rest if she knew you a little better.
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