Adice on a girl
Q. So I've been sort of going out with this girl for like a month. We've been talking and I've known her for a long time and I really like her. However, she hasn't talked to me in over a week. Nothing wrong with it, but its strange because we were ...
A. 19 November 2009: IT sounds like she is having second thoughts. iT's a shame, but don't worry, the right one will show up some day. Relax!... (read in full...)
Losing hope
Q. I've been in an on/off relationship for almost 4 years now. We have never really officially to others called each other boyfriend/ girlfriend which doesn't bother me because I know what we have. I love the guy, I'm so happy when i'm with him ...
A. 19 November 2009: This relationship is not working, but by now you are probably too exhausted to do anything about it. It's difficult when you feel a bit isolated, and being in love is a kind of madness that distorts all your thoughts, so it's hard to think ... (read in full...)
What does he want? sex? Playing around? Or is he just full of bs?
Q. I met this guy from online.We talked/flirted daily for a wk before meeting. We met and despite our flirty chats..he was sweet, a gentleman and our drinks + coffee date ended w/ passionate kiss, followed by a txt tellin me he had a great time.He ...
A. 19 November 2009: Keep on being cool. Sounds like he doesn't know himself what he wants to do. See other guys and don't obsess!... (read in full...)
Should we stay friends?
Q. I've been friends with a guy for the past 3 yrs. When we had met he was interested in me but at the time I had my mind on another guy so we just stayed friends. Now, 3 years later we've been getting closer and yesterday I texted him and told him...
A. 19 November 2009: no, i don't think he's confused, I think he's not interested, so only stay friends if you will be satisfied with friendship, because it doesn't sound like he's going ro change his mind.... (read in full...)
I want to spend as much time with her as possible but her family are getting in the way!
Q. Hey guys, Me and my GF is in a long distance relationship right now. We haven't seen each other for 7 months and counting. Now, I'm going to visit her soon, and me and my whole family are going out of town to a nice beach resort. So I asked my GF...
A. 19 November 2009: does she want to go? If so, there's no harm at least in her talking to her parents about it. After all, she's old enough legally ro make her own choices, even though she obviously respects her parents. On the other hand, if you really want to see ... (read in full...)
How can I know he truly loves me?
Q. I love my boyfriend a lot but he doesn't feels it ever. What should I do and how can I trust him and know that he truly loves me??? help...
A. 19 November 2009: iT's a bit difficult to understand the question, it's slightly vague. is he a nice guy? If so, ask him, this question. He won't mind. If not, you shouldn't be with him.... (read in full...)
Am I stupid to still care about him?
Q. i was in love with dis guy 2 yrs back,he showed me love he made me forget about all my past we had 5 mnths but it was like many years.everything changed when he want to marry me cuase he wnt kids i suggested we get tested before.he tested positive ...
A. 19 November 2009: You did the right thing, but it wasn't what he wanted. Ask yourself how is this attitude of his going to work out in a long term relationship? Because a sorted out guy who loved you wouldn't want to land you in a messy situation like this.... (read in full...)
Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 19 November 2009: These women are not falling in love with married men, just men, and these guys are good at telling you what you want to hear; they don't have sex with their wives, the marriage is over in all but name, they're only together for the children, tc. ... (read in full...)
How many frogs do I have to date in order to find the one?
Q. I have written for advice in the past and still need it. I dated a great guy and we broke up afte six months of dating. He only was divorced one year. I have been single for ten. He went through a lot of bad stuff with his divorce. He never ...
A. 19 November 2009: There are a lot of frogs out there, and once you get older, you are sometimes working with poor material. It's not about being needy or desperate, it's modern times! When you are in a bad relationship, being alone and having control over your own ... (read in full...)
At my age, being realistic, what are the chances of lasting and marrying her?
Q. I'm 18, shes 19. we was best friend for four years before we got together. we got together and we broke up, but it wasnt long before we realised we cant do it without each other, and now we are back together again. we have our ups and downs as wit...
A. 9 November 2009: I think there are two issues here, your ages and the sexual aspect. Most women of nineteen in a loving relationship would feel they were 'ready for sex' unless there were religious or other barriers. Is it possible that your girlriend sees you as ... (read in full...)
The truth about teacher student relationships
Q. For those who have a crush on their teacher; When I was 14 I moved into this teacher's group. He was really flattered by this and wanted to speak to me, see me all of the time. But only in terms of work in the beginning. People generally didn...
A. 9 November 2009: It's interesting that this teacher was clearly obsessed with you for a long time. Perhaps you could interpret his marriage as an attempt to accept that his feelings were inappropriate and face reality, but his actions were not acceptable. Nobo... (read in full...)
Is his controlling behaviour normal?
Q. my boyfriend is coming across as very controlling recently he trys to make sure how long I can stay out for and who my friends can be. I can't wear skirts and he is going on a boy's holiday and I can't go on a girl's one. I do not understa...
A. 9 November 2009: This kind of controlling behaviour, unfortunately, is very common. Once it has started, it is unlikely to stop. You are likely to experience more controlling behaviour as time goes by. I'm sure this man is often fun to be with, and he probably ... (read in full...)
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