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age
36-40,
*eh
writes:Hey guys, Me and my GF is in a long distance relationship right now. We haven't seen each other for 7 months and counting. Now, I'm going to visit her soon, and me and my whole family are going out of town to a nice beach resort. So I asked my GF to go with me and my family. She said that her parents is very strict with trips and overnights especially with a BF and they probably won't let her go. She's 21, but she has very strict, and traditional, old fashioned parents. (We're asian BTW). Usually, I understand these situations, but the thing is I'm only visiting her for 6 weeks and I want to spend more time with her as much as possible. That's why I'm really want her to go. What should I do?
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reader, weh +, writes (19 November 2009):
weh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe wants to go, but she's scared to ask her parents because she know they would say no...I mean, it would be fine if she at least try to ask her parents, at least I knew that she tried...
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reader, Auntie Marilyn  +, writes (19 November 2009):
does she want to go? If so, there's no harm at least in her talking to her parents about it. After all, she's old enough legally ro make her own choices, even though she obviously respects her parents. On the other hand, if you really want to see her, you might have to give up the holiday and hang around in town. That's what we do for love!
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