I feel like a horrible person! What do I do?
Q. so i know i ask questions about my love life alot, but its complicated. especially now. he used to be such a sweetheart, always caring and making me feel so special and loved and he always used to do stuff with me like go hiking, or swimming...
A. 21 January 2011: he says he loves me very much and he's sorry and that thing will change, but if i break up with him now he'll never want anything to do with me again =/... (read in full...)
Am I be controlling by not wanting my boyfriend to meet up with his ex?
Q. I went out with my boyfriend the other night for something to eat and a couple of drinks, we ended up having a heart to heart and he said to me 'If (his ex) ever asked me to hang out with her one day would you mind?', I was a bit tipsy at this ...
A. 20 January 2011: i dont think your being controlling at all, i think its normal especially in your situation. but if he just really wants to see her or he keeps asking, go with them. maybe he does just want to be friends, and also it might be a good idea to let his ... (read in full...)
Unwanted hair on my stomach!
Q. For about 5 years or possibly more i startec to develop dark hair on my belly! Im extremley embarressed about this as i feel its not normal for a girl to get this?! I have tried to shave it and even wax strips but it just comes back! I cant show my ...
A. 20 January 2011: well, its not particularly commen, bt it's not un heard of either. if you feel you need to buy a lazer kit, make sure it's a good one and be prepared and know about the potential dangers and negative side effects that can be caused. I know how ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is the worst flirt!
Q. so, my boyfriend is the WORST flirt. He flirts with girls online, so its not like i can exactly ignore it, which ive tried my hardest to do. He calls them, plays xbox with them, and just overall acts likes hes interested in them. and when i get mad ...
A. 20 January 2011: he does cover his trail, i found out from a friend he goes onto other facebook accounts and talks to them. I have no issue with him having chick friends at all but when hes like "i love you, best friend! 3" and theyre calling him cute and saying he ... (read in full...)
My pregnant friend is getting an abortion and I'm the only one who knows!
Q. my best friend, who im in love with, told me today she thought she was pregnant. When i asked who it was she told it was one of my best friends who knows i love her. she really dosent want a baby because it was a mistake and dosent want her parents ...
A. 13 January 2011: honestly, wether its right or wrong shes gonna do what she feels is best, and the best thing you can do for her is to be there for her and not judge her. i bet she really needs a shoulder to lean on right now.... (read in full...)
Do others get caught having sex?
Q. I have been caught several times by my parents and my boyfriends parents "messing around"/ foreplay and once having sex, I am so traumatized! Does this happen to a lot of people? ...
A. 10 January 2011: yes ive been caught once by my own parents and once by my boyfriends parents. Im so sorry this happend to you too! you just have to be calm about and if they ask just say "heat of the moment, sorry" and not talk about it and move on haha. thats all ... (read in full...)
Do I really like her for who she really is?
Q. right, ive been with a girl for nearly 6 months now. we're both 17, she's 4 months older than me, and we go to the same school though she is in the year above. The way we started going out is a bit strange really, she just started talking to me ...
A. 9 January 2011: wow your question was incredibly long. well i think your just stressing too much. did you lose your virginity to her? because thats normal behavior for that situation. just take a few deep breaths when those thoughts creep up on you. and your mother ... (read in full...)
In our LDR I feel I take more than I give. How can I satisfy him more?
Q. I am 17, he is 19. We are in a Long distance relationship, and are sleeping together. Problem is, I tend to take more than I give, meaning I am usually satisfied with the sex, whilst he gets nothing. I can't seem to stimulate him, and I feel selfish ...
A. 9 January 2011: I would suggest giving into his fantasies, and doing nothing but what HE wants. think about his likes and dislikes in bed, and go from there. Be creative and take the fun outside of the bedroom, maybe in a car, or in the back yard, or if you live in ... (read in full...)
Is it unhealthy to have sex everyday?
Q. Is it unhealthy to have sex almost everyday? And after we have sex it hurt and was sore it has did this a few times what's wrong?...
A. 9 January 2011: maybe your getting bruised down there because you dont have to recover from the sex... (read in full...)
He's not respecting me, but he says I'm not respecting him?
Q. my boyfriend has recently been saying things that i dont really agree with and they've been upsetting me quite a bit. Every friday i go to his house after school, but on fridays he has rugby training until 4, so like a usual girlfriend i go up to ...
A. 9 January 2011: well i think regaurdless of you not respecting him or not he shouldnt leave you out in the cold like that, thats just mean. maybe you should just not go there for awhile. if he asks, just say 'well i really dont feel like being left out in the cold ... (read in full...)
Sex is ok.
Q. I am 17 years old and lost my virginity to my boyfriend 9 months ago. We've been together for a little over a year now. It's never really felt that great when we've had sex. I've always thought I had a problem but I don't know if it's me or him or ...
A. 9 January 2011: I know where your comming from hun :) its mostly a mind set i found out, you have to be REALLY into to it for sex to feel awesome. you have to really WANT the person and not be afraid to shove him down on the bed with force every now and then ;P for ... (read in full...)
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