Would starting a relationship with someone help me get over my crush?
Q. I'm in a rut. I'm completely infatuated with a close friend who is currently in a relationship. I have difficulty getting her out of my mind. We email and talk all the time and I would like to find out if there is more there, but I don't want to ...
A. 5 March 2010: Dude be a man!
tell her how you feel once and then move on. She is NOT your friend, and the reason she is not your friend because you are lying to her. She thinks that you are her friend but in actuality you are just pretending to be her frie... (read in full...)
This crush on my boss...
Q. I have a crush on my boss. She's around my age, and as far as I know, she's not currently in a relationship. She has a lot of the same interests as I do, and she seems like a really nice person. She's also not that high up on the management ladder ...
A. 5 March 2010: How about organizaing a small work lunch to a nearby restuarant. Invite 5 or 6 people and invite her as well.....that should be a good start. will give you guys some time together... It will give you an idea if she seems interested, if s... (read in full...)
What do you do when you have someone you genuinely love just want to be friend?
Q. What do you do when you have someone you genuinely love just want to be friend? She liked me at some point, but I have no clue how she feels now. I tried looking at her as just a friend, but it's impossible for me. I stopped talking to her on ...
A. 28 January 2010: Everyone goes through what you are going through, its part of the human emotion. When I say everyone, I mean EVERYONE!!!
In my experience, I think the best way to get over a situation like this is to concentrate on your happiness. Go out ther... (read in full...)
Its complicated...please some objective input?
Q. Hi there I've searched for and read so many of the emails from guys in the similar situation to me. I can never find one "relationship situation" that is exact to my particular situation, but at the end of the day, the expected answers I will g...
A. 30 December 2009: Every person is different, every person wants different things. you're girlfriend, to you, seems irrational and is doing something which your logical mind cannot comprehend, but the fact is that what she is doing is very logical to her and make ... (read in full...)
The old question: In love with a straight guy part infinity!
Q. (MOD NOTE: POSTER'S ORIGINAL TITLE) I'm a just turned 20 year old (gay)guy who always attract straight guys. But here is the problem: I like my brother in law too much then i actually should. Everytime he looks/smiles or even talkes to m...
A. 30 December 2009: yes please!... (read in full...)
Is it me...? Am I being selfish?
Q. I have been with my 20 year old boyfriend for 2 years and i still love him more than ever, i just feel like throughout our relationship i have never really been treated. even on my birthday i didn't really get many presents and he complained when we ...
A. 12 November 2009: why should the girl get all the treats....i think ure being a bit selfish. I mean if this stuff is important to you than that tells me that there is something wrong with the relationship. If you are happy with the guy, then you should'nt need any ... (read in full...)
Am I just bored and single or do I like him?
Q. HELP! ok theres this guy i think i like im not sure if i like him because im bored and single right now... but i knew him for a veryy long time and i was attracted to him when we were younger but the feelings disappeared recently the feelings came ...
A. 28 October 2009: sweetheart you are a typical girl...lol Congratulations!!. you want to get what you can't have. you just want to have fun.
I don't think you actually like this guy, but yes you ARE bored.
So basically You just want some drama in your li... (read in full...)
Why I Can't Get Over My Ex-Girlfriend?
Q. I am really struggling to get over my Ex-Girlfriend’s memories . Every night, I am having a dream about her, seeing her not happy in her life. I know I got her hurt with my over-possessiveness. But over the past few weeks, I have critical...
A. 23 October 2009: nothing!, let her go... if you love something set it free, if it comes back it is yours, if it doesn't, it never was.... be strong ... (read in full...)
It bothers me that my g/f slept with someone she didn't even know
Q. My girlfriend slept with a lead singer from a band. It bothers me everyday that I know this. She said she did it because at the time she was mad at her old boyfriend. It just makes me so sad that she would lower herself like this to someone...
A. 28 September 2009: if she didnt cheat on you, don't judge her.
you are trying to contol someone else..which is almost impossible to do...... (read in full...)
G/f says that I'm not your call girl..I get no affection from her at all
Q. I am 21. I and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years now. I always try to make her happy by cracking jokes, make her laugh. In our 1st 6 months, she completely ignored me as if we were just friends and took more interest in other guys. But ...
A. 28 September 2009: move on brother...she is using you for your money, and fun. thrill of being chased it seems is a drug for her, move on, talk to other girls. Trust me she will come runnibg back...... (read in full...)
How do I make him understand I'm not a machine?
Q. I am almost thirty yrs old, I am married to a man who is four years younger than me and has a sex drive of a sixteen yr old. We have 3 children together, all between the ages of 6 to 1 yr old. I work full time as well as have the children in various ...
A. 28 September 2009: He is your husband...if he wants it...he wants it...
think about it, wouldnt you rather he has it with you, then someone else..right?
his biology is not going to change....... (read in full...)
My wife is stressed over thoughts about another woman....
Q. Recently my wife has been hanging out with a new girl she met from work. They went out a few times, and then seem to fall out of touch. Then a few days ago we bumped into her and her boyfriend at a store and my wife was acting very strangely. I ...
A. 28 September 2009: your wife may be thinking that you won't fight for her. Let me ask you this, how would have you have acted if instead of the other woman, it was some other guy? to her it may seem that if you seem so cool right now with the whole thing, maybe if ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to go out without me...
Q. I've been happily engaged to my fiancee for 3 years now. Both of us previously being married, neither one of us are in a rush. We have too much on our plate, children, education, career, aging parents right now to deal with. Although, he is ...
A. 23 September 2009: I think he is an insecure person, who is afraid of getting hurt.
I also think you are not honest here.
First thing first, his ex girlfriend cheated oh him and dumped him, and that resulted in a mild depression, so when you threatened to le... (read in full...)
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