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30-35,
anonymous
writes:HELP! ok theres this guy i think i like im not sure if i like him because im bored and single right now... but i knew him for a veryy long time and i was attracted to him when we were younger but the feelings disappeared recently the feelings came back.. i think.. he has a new girlfriend which doesnt bother me cause two months ago i went to sixflags with him and his last gf his relationships doesnt last too long...the fact he has a new gf doesnt bother me but i jus cant get him out my head.. i met her{his new gf} and he introduced me he said my name... and said aka a brat i laughed it off it didnt bother me..when she is not around he would sublety flirt but i would ignore him or push him away...i tend to like when she is around though that means he would not show me alot of attention and be in my face...im confused do i like him or not?
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reader, menni  +, writes (29 October 2009):
I dont think you like this guy. I think you are jst looking for a relationship. This guy sounds nice dont mess with his gf and his head. Find someone fresh that you can jst have a laugh with
gd luck
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reader, Artfuldodger  +, writes (28 October 2009):
sweetheart you are a typical girl...lol Congratulations!!. you want to get what you can't have. you just want to have fun.
I don't think you actually like this guy, but yes you ARE bored.
So basically You just want some drama in your life. See when he is with his girl and introduces you to her, he becomes a challenge to you since you can't have him. Hence this guy is giving you drama in your life. Now when the gf is away and he is flirting with you, you think to yourself, what the hell, this guy is so easy.
so basically the only reason you like him is that he has a girl friend!!!
you dont like him...you like drama....
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 October 2009):
I think you did like him. I'm not sure you do now. I think it's more to do with the fact that you realoize you could have been with him, but weren't, and it's just playing on your mind that 'it could have been'. This sometimes happens. I once fancied a girl, who didn't fancy me. Then when I got a girlfriend, I fancied her. Needless to say she was far too late. Also, you are pushing him away, so again, I'd say that you don't fancy him anymore. Take time away from him and really focus on your own happiness and wellbeing. If you're lonely, make sure you're socializing with other people. Your Mr Right will be out there, but this guy isn't him. Good luck.
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