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Mid 20s guys dating late-teen girls?

Q.   Guys opinions plz. What do u think about younger gals. Guys aged 25-27 about girls of 18? To u think of them as a little girl or a girl u could date? Of does it depend on how mature the girl is? ...

A.   14 April 2009: Well, it would help she is finished with school at least. Cause no guy wants to be chased by daddy and his double barrel. Other than that, if she is mature for her age, and doesn't pretend to be worldly, emphasis on pretend, then I don't see any ... (read in full...)

Why didn't you give in to temptation?

Q.   Has anyone ever been tempted to cheat? If so- how didn't you give into the temptation?...

A.   14 April 2009: Yes, and there is no "try", just "do". Just don't cheat. Rather face the facts that you want someone else, and break-up. Cheating is easy. And the right thing to do, is almost always the harder option. Character building stuff! Hope that helps... (read in full...)

Another ex on the wall

Q.   Hello there, First off I love the site. It gives people a chance to give constructive advise. I have been with my current bf for 2years. We have known each other for 10. Him and his ex girlfriend have been broken up for over 3 years. Here ...

A.   14 April 2009: Unless this woman is a total Dr Dolittle pat every animal in sight type of person, I'd tag her b*tch. Because then she is trying to stir. That's not the question though. I think if she is acting unreasonable, and he is indulging her knowing ... (read in full...)

Single forever?

Q.   Hi everyone sometimes I feel like I'm going to be single forever!!! I'm 28 and just broke up with my girlfriend 8 months ago...(long story)...since then I've become so depressed...now I'm very cautious about my relationships and have some kind o...

A.   14 April 2009: Relationships are like Lego's... you won't find the piece your looking for until you stop looking. It is normal to feel lonely, and to have doubts about the future when one ends a serious relationship. And be honest with yourself, but yo... (read in full...)

How can I ask him to let go of his ex's "memories" and what I mean to him?

Q.   Well this is it. I had to make a call to my mom from my boyfriends phone, my phone is in for repairs, right, so well i was going down the list to find my mom's number i came across a contact called 'sweetheart' allow with his ex-wife details. I was ...

A.   14 April 2009: In that case, I really doubt that you have any reason to worry. Obviously he still sees the two of you together in the future, and the other lady is out of the picture. Happy for you sweety... ;) ... (read in full...)

How can I ask him to let go of his ex's "memories" and what I mean to him?

Q.   Well this is it. I had to make a call to my mom from my boyfriends phone, my phone is in for repairs, right, so well i was going down the list to find my mom's number i came across a contact called 'sweetheart' allow with his ex-wife details. I was ...

A.   8 April 2009: Why would you think he hasn't moved on? If he doesn't still contact his ex, they don't meet to catch up or anything to the like, then he probably has,specially since it sounds like she really hurt him. It seems more like A) Your wondering whethe... (read in full...)

Is my ex bf just playing games with me?

Q.   Is my ex bf just playing games with me? I broke up with him about a month ago because he was treating me really badly and showed no respect for me what so ever. It took me a few attempts to go through with it (as he would always change my mind) ...

A.   6 April 2009: This dude sounds bi-polar... It sounds like he is achieving exactly what he set out to do: "hes making it hard to move on." He probably still wants you, (you breaking up with him). He wants you to either be jealous (the 1000 girls lining up *coug... (read in full...)

Is he still physically attracted to me?

Q.   ex broke up with me about 6 months ago when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him because thats the type of gal i am but after stuff that he told my best mate i decided i had enough of making an effort with him so ...

A.   1 April 2009: Physically: I very much doubt that someone would willingly sleep with someone they don't find attractive (physically at least). It's not like he had any obligation to do so... More so, it sounds like he likes you more than that, because why woul... (read in full...)

He doesn't feel the same, he still has a thing for his ex

Q.   I have been dating this guy for 5 months and he warned me from day one that he didn't want to hurt me. I told him I wouldn't let him but I don't know anymore. He told me that he and his girlfriend broke up two months before and that he was still in ...

A.   23 March 2009: You guys sound like your good for each other, as friends at least for the time being and maybe more in the future. The rule is this though, that relationships have to be able to evolve with time if there is to be a possibility of a long term thin... (read in full...)

The pill and fear of getting pregnant!

Q.   Hey guys, I went on the pill for about 2 years and then came off it.. for the duration of time that I was on it I never let my boyfriend finish in me even while on the pill for fear of getting pregnant... Now I'm with a new person and would like t...

A.   20 March 2009: Why not try the contraceptive injection? One shot can last up to 3 months at a time and by the time you have to get your second shot it will be impossible to get pregnant. With continuous use it will even be impossible to fall pregnant for up to a ... (read in full...)

How to handle obsessive crush!

Q.   i really really like this guy whose a year older than me, we are both in high school and flirt sometimes but he doesnt sit with my group so i dont see him too much. im like obsessed with him, i take extra trips to the toilet so i can walk past him, ...

A.   20 March 2009: Try not to place him on a pedestal. Doing so will only make it harder for you to engage him as an equal. Seeing him just the same as any other guy, will enable you to tell him how you feel (which is what you ultimately have to do) without acting ... (read in full...)

How to handle obsessive crush!

Q.   i really really like this guy whose a year older than me, we are both in high school and flirt sometimes but he doesnt sit with my group so i dont see him too much. im like obsessed with him, i take extra trips to the toilet so i can walk past him, ...

A.   20 March 2009: Try not to place him on a pedestal. This will only make it harder for you to engage him as an equal. Seeing him as just another guy will make it easier for you to actually tell him how you feel (which is what you must ultimately do) without acting ... (read in full...)

How can I make areas of my body lighter?

Q.   Im 26 years old and im still a virgin. The problem i can't go out with a guy is....im very fair in colour but my buds and my vagine is dark in colour which makes me shy to have sex with anyone. I also have dark spots on my bud. How can i make my ...

A.   20 March 2009: You can go to your local pharmacist and ask for a Retin-A cream, also known as Tretinoin... I don't think it should bother you, but if you feel strongly about it, that'll do the job.... (read in full...)

Trapped in a relationship with a obsessed girl - How do I escape?

Q.   hello friends ....i am in the red alert zone and need to take some step fast...i have a girlfriend since one year and she's really creepy !! she always brings "u and me" in everything that comes across us. guys dont find her very attactive and just ...

A.   20 March 2009: Dude, if you don't have feelings for her, it isn't fair to either one to carry on the relationship. Eventually she will pick up on it, and the longer it takes for that to happen the greater he damage, and so too your frustration will start to show, ... (read in full...)

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