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writes: ex broke up with me about 6 months ago when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him because thats the type of gal i am but after stuff that he told my best mate i decided i had enough of making an effort with him so i decided to keep my distance from him that nightthe next night i was receiving heaps of texts off him like did u enjoy the party and he was asking how everything was and stuff anyway it was getting really late and i fell asleep .. when i woke up i had 15 text messages from him anyway he apologised in he morning and said he was drinking ... so i asked him y he always txts me when hes drinking and y does he do it to me cos he knows i still love him loads he said he didnt know and that i didnt deserve it at all and hes really sorry .. all that day we were texting each other which never happens because we cut that out when he broke up... later that evening he txt me and asked me if i was up 4 a root .. i said yea cos i love him and want to be with him ..i went around to his place .. when i got there he cuddled me and offered me water lol.. (him cuddling me didnt happen the last time we had sex bcos we got straight into it he wasnt really affectionate at all to be fair ) ...anyways we had sex but this time it was diff cos he was just wanting to kiss me and cuddle me heaps more..we have had sex once bfore after our break up but this time was different .. i was saying my goodbyes to him but he strarted to cudddle and kiss me and made me lay down to go to sleep so i did we both fell asleep in the morning i was leaving cos i had to work early as i was getting out of bed he said u cant go till i get a cuddle so i gave him one it was great just to hold him was awesome he walked me to the door and he wanted more cuddles and he told me to take care .. the thing is i have not heard from him since that day which was about 9 days ... im just confused does he still like me and too scared to admit that he still has feelings or is he over it all competly and just playing mind games with me .. im really confused do u think hes still physically attracted to me
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (1 April 2009):
i am sure he likes you physicaly,
but he might have been buisy with another girl the last days,
but i think your better rethink your relation with him becasue he doesnt seem to be serious any how
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reader, Answerthis  +, writes (1 April 2009):
Physically: I very much doubt that someone would willingly sleep with someone they don't find attractive (physically at least). It's not like he had any obligation to do so...
More so, it sounds like he likes you more than that, because why would he raise the bar with the cuddling if the norm has already been set as purely casual.
As to why he hasn't made contact. That can be many things, pride, being shy, fear of being rejected, mind games being the least likely in my opinion. Only a real "player" would play mind games on this level, and to gain what? Your assessment here would be the most accurate.
Hope it helps...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): hes probably waiting for you to call him, just call him!!!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 April 2009):
Well he's obviously physically attracted to you in that he didn't throw up during sex.
As for if he wants to get back together with you is another question entirely.
He's messing you about and that is never good. The fact you also allow yourself to get messed about is not going to impress him or make you more desirable.
You need to ask him if he wants to get back together and give it a go. If he says ANYTHING but yes (including, well lets just see, which really means, I like commitment free sex) then walk away from him.
The longer you go on with this, the more it is going to hurt you. So I know it's hard but you have to go cold turkey, because he will really mess you up if you let him.
Good Luck!! xx
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