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14 August 2013: I am writing this, so that I can tell people how I managed to overcome a burning crush that drove me crazy for over two years, which was too long for me! I am in a long-term, happy relationship with my boyfriend however I found myself lusting a...
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Should I attend my Son's wedding?
Q. I am a dad who doesn't get along well with his only son. He is getting married in a couple days and have chosen a non cleric, non blood related family member to officiate the ceremony, a man I totally despise and have never gotten along with. I like ...
A. 8 October 2017: Go to the wedding and don't cause trouble, I used to know a nice man who sadly, was an alcoholic and he fell out with his family, his daughter got married and he didn't attend the wedding, no one knows whether he was invited or not, or if he chose ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is constantly talking about how gorgeous other women are and I find it very hurtful
Q. Hi, Just wanted to see what other people say about this: I seem to meet guys, two now that I'd really fallen for, one I dated for a few months last year but had to leave the relationship for various reasons, but the one of the biggest reasons ...
A. 20 July 2015: Thanks so much for all the really lovely replies, I feel less of a crazy person now! Thanks x Basically atm I'm incredibly hurt and fragile as, I told him, by text only because he is away working, that his behaviour has really upset me, and th... (read in full...)
We aren't dating but she always asks about my love life. Why?
Q. Hello, I was seeing someone for a couple of months but they had to end it. She was having problems in her life and trying to start a relationship on top of it all put too much pressure on her. So we just kept in touch. Now she is seeing someone ...
A. 24 August 2013: Hmm, it seems to me that she's still sort of hanging on to you or something.
It's like she hasn't fully let your relationship go, but she made the choice to end it, so it's unfair of her to be asking about your relationships, when really, it's not... (read in full...)
How do I start my journey with my kids and end contact with this awful man?
Q. I am devastated, as I have been used and abused for 7 years with a man I loved and sacrificed alot for. Last year I gave birth to our second baby and he started mistreating me terribly. He would sleep out 3 nights every week, and bit me up. ...
A. 23 August 2013: I'm sorry to hear that. That is very difficult, that there is no support right there for you, I really hope you do find some help or support somewhere, would you consider travelling somewhere else in your country where they have better facilities? ... (read in full...)
How do I start my journey with my kids and end contact with this awful man?
Q. I am devastated, as I have been used and abused for 7 years with a man I loved and sacrificed alot for. Last year I gave birth to our second baby and he started mistreating me terribly. He would sleep out 3 nights every week, and bit me up. ...
A. 22 August 2013: Get to your nearest women's aid association. If there is any, I really hope there is for your sake, you really need to just leave the situation, for both your sake and your children.
I don't know what aid is given to women who are domestic... (read in full...)
He dated my best friend, should I try again ?
Q. I was dating this guy for a year and a half and we broke up. I couldn't remember the reason why we did because it was a few years ago but I know that it didn't end well. After being broken up for a little bit, my ex started dating my friend...
A. 21 August 2013: I'd say, stay WELL AWAY from him and her. What they did to you was pathetic and rotten. And it wasn't your fault, you didn't force them to get together. She sounds like such a nasty "freind", never have anything to do with either of them. You d... (read in full...)
I'm married, he's married. Do I tell him that I have a crush?
Q. I am married and I have a crush on a married teacher I met only briefly. Should I tell him? ...
A. 20 August 2013: If it starts to bother you very much after time has passed, then perhaps, but if it's just something lighthearted with no big intentions, then there probably is no need!
But if you find yourself starting to have feelings etc. then nip it in the b... (read in full...)
I've been mourning my dog for two years -- is that normal?
Q. Hello Aunts, It's really difficult to describe your feelings when they run deep, at least I really struggle with it. I honestly suck at expressing my deepest feelings in words and I am heartbroken to the core. So, I apologize in advance for my p...
A. 18 August 2013: First of all you are NOT crazy, you're just suffering very severe depression after a very painful and traumatic loss. You loved your dog more than anything in the world, don't question yourself on that and you gave her a wonderful life. Your choice ... (read in full...)
Should I just keep quiet and my love and pain to myself in regards to a co-worker moving away?
Q. This is a stupid question but I'm going to ask it anyway because I feel so bad. I am a married man with children and I'm in love with a significantly younger woman at work. She's recently married and happily so as far as I can tell. We get on really ...
A. 17 August 2013: I agree with the guy who said to tell her, I had a long painful crush on a married man who I think is about twice my age. I just got so sick of my feelings that after more than two years of not even really talking to him. I rang him and told him ... (read in full...)
Since having children my friend constantly and openly openly judges me and makes me feel bad about my decision not to have kids
Q. Hey! So, I've had this friend since kindergarden. We've been very close friends since we were 3 years old and I know she loves me and I love her back, but we're very different people (different education, different background...). Anyway, the thin...
A. 16 August 2013: It is a sad situation but I think you're better off letting her go. It is too unfair for you to be brought down constantly.
People like this, even if they were once a good friend, can change and become toxic.
I just think that if you stay frie... (read in full...)
I finally got over my burning crush on a married man!
Q. I am writing this, so that I can tell people how I managed to overcome a burning crush that drove me crazy for over two years, which was too long for me! I am in a long-term, happy relationship with my boyfriend however I found myself lusting a...
A. 16 August 2013: Thank you for your kind reply. The purpose of writing it was hopefully to give other people some hope and encouragement in difficult situations such as this. I'm glad you feel a little better about yourself. And you're not being judgemental, you... (read in full...)
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