Roommates keep eating my food and making messes after or as I clean and then there's the dog.
Q. I lived in the dorms freshman and sophomore year but now I live in a three-bedroom apartment with M, her boyfriend in the master bedroom and my friend H (gay male) in the second bedroom. I'm in the third bedroom. I brought my mini fridge, microwave, ...
A. 24 February 2020: The dog, that's the biggest problem. So H IS the problem BECAUSE he's never there to take care of the dog. NONE of these people are friends to you: they just want low-cost rent and free food as well as a dog sitter! I agree that YOU need to move. ... (read in full...)
What can I talk about with a former classmate if my past is off limits?
Q. I wrote in before about whether or not to meet an old classmate who wasn't nice to me and wants to make amends. I've decided to meet him (whenever that will be) but now I don't know what to talk about. Since HS I've had a string of very controll...
A. 3 February 2020: Youcannotbeserious, this is my original post: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-meet-with-him-but-dont.html.
I do have some paranoia that he will proposition me but he seems honestly sorry. For clarification, I no longer live in KY, I live... (read in full...)
My boyfriend gets nasty when I don't do what he wants!
Q. My boyfriend gets nasty and angry if I don't spend the night staying over with him every weekend and refuses to come over to see me and take me out for the day because I wont do what he wants which is stayover and have sex all night and day. the ...
A. 30 October 2019: I think what you want here is validation and that's okay.
You deserve better! If he's your age-ish, he ought to be more mature than he's being, but he's not. What are you doing to be allow his treatment? Continuing to associate with him. Cut him ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend lie about his sister?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and he told me all the time that he's the only child of his mom, and I recently found out that he has a sister that he never told me about because until recently he was so upset and he had to tell me about this ...
A. 23 October 2019: He may have a girlfriend on the side or there is something he's been afraid his sister will tell you about him he doesn't want you to know
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Why is my former co worker being like this?
Q. became friends with a co worker at work who I like. she talked to me quite a lot and the conversations seem to flow well. I was sad to hear she was going after three months of being with the company. was in kitchen making a tea and said to her, was ...
A. 20 October 2019: I think co-worker was just friendly and chatty b/c she worked with you and was passing the time. I think she's a nice person but she didn't want your relationship to go past that. Now that she sees you asking questions about her personal life, she ... (read in full...)
I know its just facebook but my online friend confuses me.
Q. I got a nice one for you.. I never thought i find myself catching feelings with someone online, but i have. 4 years ago i friended a beautiful lady on FB. We pretty much hit it off as we have the same music interests, food, politics, and so on. ...
A. 12 October 2019: I'd leave her alone if I were you, she's still married! It's possible she talks to other men like she does you and that her husband monitors her online activity. She sounds like she likes the attention but doesn't really want it to go farther. I'm ... (read in full...)
How do I handle my girlfriend's crazy accusations against me?
Q. My girlfriend nearly every day accuses me of “changing/ switching” places with “imaginary” friends of mine that look just like me. This of course is not happening at all and I am beginning to lose my patience with her false accusations. She wi...
A. 6 October 2019: This woman seems mentally I'll to the point of being dillusional. It isn't her fault and I'm sure she has good traits, but you are not equipt to handle this alone. You (as in anyone) cannot convince a dillusional person that their reality is false. ... (read in full...)
Why does my friend get upset when I call him "buddy"?
Q. The other day I called my guy friend, “buddy”. He did not take this well and said not to call him that. But we have been friends for years. Why is this such a problem? ...
A. 6 October 2019: It just might be a quirk of his, but all you have to do is apologize and don't do it again. *Shrug*... (read in full...)
He's coming on too strong, talks about sex a lot, has a child with an ex. Should I ignore these red flags?
Q. So about 6 months ago I met this attractive guy.. we met in a cute way as I got him lost accidentally by trying to help with directions, and he later gave me his number and name, which I hadn't asked for. I added him on Facebook and he messaged me, ...
A. 24 January 2019: Please DON'T ignore those or ANY red flags! He backs off and comes back months later? He's probably wondering if his waiting period is over and if it's time for sex now. Sorry to be so blunt but it seems that's all he's focused on. Oh, and instead ... (read in full...)
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