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writes:My girlfriend nearly every day accuses me of “changing/ switching” places with “imaginary” friends of mine that look just like me. This of course is not happening at all and I am beginning to lose my patience with her false accusations. She will accuse me for no reason at all And now it is becoming a fight She also is extremely verbally abusive Every foul word every curse and belittling word she has used on meAnd she screams and I mean screams outside the house for the whole world to hear and behind closed doors as wellAnd this berserk behavior is brought on by my not going along with her accusations!What do I do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2019): I feel for both of you as your girlfriend sounds very ill. I would suggest she has paranoid schizophrenia. This sounds very different to the beginning of dementia. I have had relatives with both of these conditions and her behaviour resembles paranoid schizophrenia.
Get her or get someone else to get her to a doctor. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2019): It sounds like the early onset of dementia, my dear sir!
The fact she is abusive alone, is a dealbreaker.
What should you do? May I put is bluntly?
You breakup and get as far away from her as possible.
It may not be dementia, it might be paranoid schizophrenia; or any other mental-illness. It seems harsh to put is so bluntly, but never subject yourself to abuse in exchange for love. It's not a fair exchange. It makes no sense.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (7 October 2019):
 What are you getting from this relationship, apart from abuse? Your girlfriend sounds like she needs professional help. This is not something YOU can fix or change.
You have two options: carry on living in an abusive relationship or get out and find someone better. The choice is yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2019): How many friends do you have who look exactly like you?? This is crazy.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 October 2019):
 Um, end it?
She sounds unhinged. What exactly are you getting out of this relationship?
It sounds toxic!
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reader, AnnieV1979 +, writes (6 October 2019):
 This woman seems mentally I'll to the point of being dillusional. It isn't her fault and I'm sure she has good traits, but you are not equipt to handle this alone. You (as in anyone) cannot convince a dillusional person that their reality is false. I hope you don't live together.
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