He has a gf but I want to date him...do I take a chance and talk to him about it?
Q. I've had an extremely close and flirtatious relationship with one of my friends for the past year. I'm afraid I might be in love with him, but the problem is he has a girlfriend. They've been together for a long time, but the relationship is very ...
A. 9 December 2005: HI babe, bit of a tricky one here. i think youve answered a part of it yourself. hes had time to be with you, but hasnt. it must to awful to think that you love this man, but cant have him, knowing hes with someone else. the best thing i can ... (read in full...)
I'm married but very attracted to a co-worker...so ashamed of the way I feel.
Q. I'm a married guy, that has been in a very loving stable relationship with my wife for over 10 years. We have a young child. My dilemma is that i have fallen deeply for a much younger co-worker. I do not know how this girl feels about me but i am ...
A. 8 December 2005: hi,
there is nothing wrong with liking this girl, its admirable that you havnt done anything, many would have. its hard not to get close to the people you work with, as you are with them the majority of your time.
its nice to hear you wouldnt ... (read in full...)
He hits me and then tells me I'm lucky to have him! Help me..
Q. Hi there, i am in my early thirties and so is my bf. we have been on for 2yrs. they are some many problems in the relationship but am just too scared to leave cos i am an albino(hyper-pigmentation) and i dont usually get much attention at all. ...
A. 8 December 2005: oh my god!! no man should ever, EVER hit a woman. are you looking for confidence from men, because if you are, you are never going to find it. confidence come from within, as corny as that sounds, its so true. feeling insecure, and in a relatio... (read in full...)
I love him but he texts other woman..I can't trust him. What should I do?
Q. really need some advice. I have been in two serious relationships in my past - one for 7 years (he cheated on me and left me for someone else) and one for 2 years (he was very controlling and mentally abusive). I have started seeing somone (who i ...
A. 8 December 2005: HI i've been in similar relationships to you. once you have been cheated on and mentally abused in past relationships, it's always hard to trust anyone, and no matter how amazing a new partner may be,( the only man i turely trust is my dad!) we... (read in full...)
His ex wants to be friends with me...is she being nice or do I need to be careful?
Q. hi everyone, me n my bf have been together 5months, he's always been friends with his ex (they only went out for about 3days just over a year ago) and about 2 months ago my bf told me that his ex was chatting to him on msn and she kept asking him ...
A. 8 December 2005: Hi, ok, well 3 days isnt that long at all, especially not long enough to say that she loves him, even though they have had a friendship since. you do need to be cautious as she has already told him that she would like to get back. i don't think it... (read in full...)
He got a suspicious phone call from his ex at 4 am- do you think I'm making a huge deal over this?
Q. I was at my b/f's the other night and his ex called at 4am she was crying ...i pretended i was sleeping and he kept telling her he had to go when i got up he finally hung up on her...am i making a huge deal over nothing? or do you think it is ...
A. 6 December 2005: hi, im sorry you feel so muddled, i can try and give you some advice, but it's up to you how you eventually deal with this. how long were they going out before? how long has it been since they have finished? how long have you two been together... (read in full...)
She avoids looking at me sometimes...what does this mean?
Q. I have been involved with a girl at work for a few months now, and she has a live-in boyfriend. The two of them have a little girl. Some days she will openly flirt with me and look into my eyes, no problems. Yet on other days she will talk to me ...
A. 6 December 2005: hay! im sorry you feel so muddled, especially when at work. what has happened between you two? has there been any kissing, sexual touching or sex at all? or are the meaningfull looks the only thing. As im not sure, ill try to answer in two se... (read in full...)
When I meet someone-at first, I can't get enough of them...then I get bored too fast and they turn me off!
Q. I meet someone and all of a sudden I just cant live without seeing and talking to them everyday. It lasts until they start to bore me or somehow just turn me off. But usually its when they start to get to close to me and I just dont want them in my ...
A. 6 December 2005: HI Well i can only really give advice from what ive experianced, and i've certainly been through what your describing! I'm a 25 yr female, my first and second relationships were, looking back, the loves of my life. the first just fizzled out cos ... (read in full...)
I can't believe that all those phone calls were just to "a friend"!
Q. I've been living with my boyfriend for 2 years. We've had our ups and downs, but for the most part, we were so happy together. Towards the end of our relationship we get in a huge fight of something small of course. I tell him...fine....just move ...
A. 23 November 2005: Hi, from reading your question, id say that you would like to get back with him, but not if things stay the same. I think the counseling was a good idea. It shows how important you both feel the realtionship is to you. Maybe you should have a "make ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my boyfriend about the messages I found on his phone?
Q. We have been seeing each other for 2 years and we live together. About 1 month ago I was going through his phone and read some messages from a girl I dont know. It said "I don't like to share, call me when you're single". I don't know what to do, o...
A. 19 November 2005: hi
how can you bring up your concerns when the only proof you have is from a text on his phone!
obviously you want to discuss this with him, but im affraid by you saying whats this text about, he might start to think he has no personal space in... (read in full...)
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