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writes: I've had an extremely close and flirtatious relationship with one of my friends for the past year. I'm afraid I might be in love with him, but the problem is he has a girlfriend. They've been together for a long time, but the relationship is very rocky, they fight constantly and there are lots of other problem. Nonetheless I don't actually seem him breaking up with her anytime soon. Is there any point in trying to talk to him about it? I'm almost positive he feels the same way I do, but he's had a lot of time and I feel that if he wanted me over his gf he would have done it by now. I don't want to be a home wrecker, but I don't want to lose a chance for us to be together either.
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reader, angle_eyes10 +, writes (9 December 2005):
HI babe, bit of a tricky one here. i think youve answered a part of it yourself. hes had time to be with you, but hasnt. it must to awful to think that you love this man, but cant have him, knowing hes with someone else. the best thing i can advise is, to just be there for him. be someone who he can talk to if things are bad between him and his current gf. please dont be there for anythng else for him, IE sex. if he knows he can have no strings sex with you, because you like him so much, he may take you up on that offer. if he does break up with her, the best thing then to do is give him time and space to get over the relationship. the last thing anyone wants after a break up is to go straight into another one. its important to have space to fully get the other person out of their system.i wouldnt advise telling him how you feel, he peobably has an idea already. just be his friend and wait. if your meant to be together you will!hope that helps.x Angel.x
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