He broke up with me because we argue
Q. I need advice on what to do :( I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months and I love him so much. He's adorable, caring and funny and everything I could want really although we argue quite abit. It used to be about doing stuff like sexual stuff ...
A. 20 June 2010: The big issue right there is that he argued with you when you didn't want to do sexual stuff. That's a red flag -- you guys are so young and there should be no rush to get down to it if both parties aren't willing! He shouldn't have been pressuring ... (read in full...)
We hooked up and now he says he wishes we hadn't done that
Q. During the last 8 months or so of my unhappy, abusive marriage I met up with someone I "knew of" many years ago. He expressed an interest in me but with me being married nothing could be. We stayed in contact and even flirted with each other. I ...
A. 20 June 2010: I will also echo the advice on focusing on your own life for the time being. This sounds like it could be a potentially complicated with him and you don't need any more complicated than the marriage you just came out of. Maybe you have an affinity ... (read in full...)
Is he gay if he likes anal massages?
Q. i was just curious about something. been with my partner 2 years, we are really happy together and have high sex drives (we are at it everyday most of the time) the other night he guided my finger up his bum, while he led there masturbating and he c...
A. 20 June 2010: From Wikipedia:
"During male orgasm, sperm is transmitted from the ductus deferens into the male urethra via the ejaculatory ducts, which lie within the prostate gland.
Some men are able to achieve orgasm solely through stimulation of t... (read in full...)
He asked me to marry him, then said he no longer loved me
Q. I have been dating a guy for 3 years. We have a 2 year old child together. A few weeks ago he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. I said yes and things were great. Then a few days ago he started acting distant to me and one night he ...
A. 20 June 2010: Soon said: If you're willing to move on and your thinking of another relationship before you even got a chance to end this one shows that your relationship has been in trouble, the lack of feelings between the two of you, or two people that cannot ... (read in full...)
He asked me to marry him, then said he no longer loved me
Q. I have been dating a guy for 3 years. We have a 2 year old child together. A few weeks ago he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. I said yes and things were great. Then a few days ago he started acting distant to me and one night he ...
A. 20 June 2010: Very hard situation. I'm so so sorry.
I think the best you can do right now is tell him you're willing to work on whatever's the problem, and if he doesn't respond, go No Contact. If he's really broken up with you, there's no point in beating ... (read in full...)
Should I give her my virginity?
Q. my girlfriend isn't a virgin but i am. she wants me to have sex with her. i don't know what to do....
A. 20 June 2010: Wait until you're sure. It's not so much about your virginity that should be shed in a special way but more like, you should save sex in general, not only with your first gf but with anyone, especially when you're that young, for someone special. ... (read in full...)
I used to think he was perfect...
Q. I used to think my boyfriend was perfect. I know no one can be perfect, but perfect for ME specifically. We have been together in a very serious relationship now for approximately 7 months. We've had fights and problems our entire time together, ...
A. 20 June 2010: How can someone who cannot listen to you without turning it around on you be perfect for you? Have you that little self respect? This isn't perfect for you -- this is you having little self confidence.
I'm sure you don't do this, but just for repe... (read in full...)
He's 30 years older than me. Should I make a move on him???
Q. Hello! So, I have a situation here... I am doing an internship and it ends in July, so I have ten more days. The thing is, I've fallen for a man there. But he is 30 years older than me, has been with his partner for 13 years, and has a son - who is ...
A. 20 June 2010: He's married. Walk away.
Unless... Has he made any indication he'd be willing to start things up with you? That he's unhappy with his current spouse and wants something with you? If so, RUN FOR THE HILLS. Men who do this are only using you.
... (read in full...)
Should I change myself in order to win him over?
Q. i'm 16. i'm a normal high school student, well i'm not that normal, i look kinda emo and goth, wear lots of eyeliner, i always wear black, and sometimes i could be annoying. ok so i like this guy for about a year now, he's really cool, and i like ...
A. 12 October 2009: Never change yourself for anyone. Ever. If he doesn't fall for the person you are, it's not genuine. The farce catches up to you eventually.... (read in full...)
Can this long distance relationship work? Is there hope?
Q. Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and I live in France.I think I'm bi but not really sure. I went on a myspace group about bisexual teens and picked someone randomly. I fell on a girl who loves the same things and has the same conception of life. She's r...
A. 12 October 2009: Having been in an online long-distance relationship before, let me just say you should exercise caution where your feelings are concerned. You have no way of knowing if she's truly who she says she is and you have no way of knowing what her ... (read in full...)
Is this love?
Q. Hi all! Really sorry about the rambling to come; if you don't like long questions, it's best to stop now! Well, lets start with the basics: I'm 20, I have (in my opinion) the best bf in the world whom I met in county badminton and at the moment I;...
A. 12 October 2009: You've been in love with each other for a long, long time. You think all couples have this sort of a connection with each other? You're incredibly lucky, I hope you know!... (read in full...)
Is she showing signs of interest toward me?
Q. There is a girl who is a little younger than me, and I'm 14. I'm not sure what the real signs are when someone likes you but, I'd like to know if maybe the following is a possibility that she might like me. She sits very close to me. When she wants ...
A. 12 October 2009: Hahahahha definitely interested. Ask her out =)... (read in full...)
Should I approach him in spite of what my friends think?
Q. There's this one guy in my class who is really nice, but really shy. Whenever I talk to him, he smiles and blushes a lot. I secretly think he must be socially retarted or something, because as of late I've been dropping quite a few hints to let him ...
A. 12 October 2009: I think he's definitely very much interested and I think you should drop the act and not be afraid to let him know of what you want.
Also, showing cleavage? If you want a sweet guy, attract guys for the right reasons. Be genuine, not trashy. ... (read in full...)
Why would he lie and say he had sex with her when he did not?
Q. My childhood friend and I have had feelings for each other on and off for the past 15 years of our friendship. But of course always at separate times. I was going to confront him about my feelings this time. Though it isn't as easy as I thought it ...
A. 26 August 2009: Hmm, my boyfriend lied to me about having been with other girls before me when we were just friends and then when we got together, he said I was his first. When I asked him why, his response was, "I don't know." Personally, I think it was because he ... (read in full...)
We want to make the most of the years we have left, but I'm worried I'm too old for her!
Q. I have a very difficult situation: I am dating a woman 18 years younger than myself she is 43 and I am 61 although I am very fit go to the gym every day and look a lot younger! We are both married although both of our partners are badly brain ...
A. 26 August 2009: I think that when it works, it works. It sounds like you both are in very difficult and delicate situations at home and if you hit it off, that only works to bring you closer. She's a big girl--she can decide if she's "missing out" on something ... (read in full...)
| *naphaseii's friends
These are mutual friends, so *naphaseii has
added them and they have added *naphaseii!
|
