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30-35,
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writes:Hi,I'm a 17 year old girl and I live in France.I think I'm bi but not really sure. I went on a myspace group about bisexual teens and picked someone randomly. I fell on a girl who loves the same things and has the same conception of life. She's really great and beautiful. We've been talking to each other for a week,and we have common feelings. She said she fell in love with me and is very attracted.And so am I... but the thing is that I live in France and she lives in NY. And she can't stop telling me she'd love to kiss me and hold me in her arms and I feel the same for her. Do I have to give up? We live very far...but she or I could come to my/her country for holidays. I'm so lost! I mean,I think I love her and we are really the same! Love the same food,music,beliefs,politics,... and she's so amazing.I feel lost. I don't know what to do. Could you help me? Plus,there's an article on the web I found which talks about long distance relationships and it makes me hope but I have doubts. http://www.etoile.co.uk/Love/Long.htmlThanks in advance,Sophie.
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reader, anaphaseii  +, writes (12 October 2009):
Having been in an online long-distance relationship before, let me just say you should exercise caution where your feelings are concerned. You have no way of knowing if she's truly who she says she is and you have no way of knowing what her commitment to you will be and for how long. Be very very careful with how much you invest into this. I thought I was in love with this guy, too, and one day he up and goes back to his ex. When you don't have to see the person face-to-face, when you don't have any sort of physical contact, it can be pretty easy to blow them off. Sure, there are those amazing true love stories about couples who found each other over the internet, but my advice after my experience will always be: Get away as fast as you can and find someone local.
But I know how seductive falling for someone can be so I think you'll just have to live and learn with this one. :) I wish you the best of luck!
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