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Hi everyone, I'm Ale, I am 23 yrs old, I live in NYC were I work as an accountant for a law firm. I am in a new relationship which I can whole heartedly say she is the one for me. I believe that people should take love and relationships slow and with so many people in wierd open/inappropriate relationships I shake my head to them. I think love is something that should be shared between 2 people not a couple and a friend. And come on guys treat your lady with respect.

Why do guys push the girls head down while she's giving him a blowjob?

Q.   I have a question for guys. Why do you push a girls head farther down while they're giving you head? does it feel good or is it just like, there? My boyfriend does that (i've only given him head twice) and it makes me gag sometimes. and i heard a ...

A.   7 January 2010: Hey, I am a guy and have no clue either, but when you find out let me know. I personally have never done that, never felt the need to.... (read in full...)

Another notch in his bedpost?

Q.   Hi. Not sure how to begin, but here it goes. I'm in a relationship that has been going great. But since i found out that my bf isn't a virgin and i am, i find myself 'holding back'. I've always imagined losing myself to the one i love, a virgin a...

A.   7 January 2010: My gf is a virgin and very proud of it. I am not a virgin. I lost my virginity when I was 17 and have had a few sexual partners since then. I however have never looked at any girl as "just another notch in the bed post". My gf and I have talked A ... (read in full...)

Are there certain times of the month where she might not get pregnant?

Q.   Ok I really need to know. My girlfriend told me she was on the pill so we decided not to use condoms because she doesnt like the fell of them or something. Wel anyway a few days after we did it my girlfriend confessed to me that she had forgot to ...

A.   7 January 2010: Oh dear , if you don't the logic of science keep your pants on. Or at least keep what's in your pants covered. There are only a few days in a month that a girl can get pregnant, and yes that is when she is ovulating. BUT ovulation can change with ... (read in full...)

Does love exist? I've never had a girlfriend

Q.   Hello, well i was wondering a lot about love. Ive never had a girlfriend and the last girl i liked a lot, well she told me yes about going out, but when i talked to her by phone, she told that she had boyfriend, she was very beautiful(close to the ...

A.   6 January 2010: Love does exist and when you find it, it will slap you in the face leaving you with a huge smile. I don't think any one at your age is actually in love, they may be in love with the thought of being in love but that is it. I thought I was "in love" ... (read in full...)

I think I'm in the "why buy the milk?" situation!

Q.   I'm 26 years old and my bf of 3 yrs (25) is really dragging his feet on the engagement issue. Since we started dating there has been so much discussion about our future, our children, where we'll live, etc. We've been living together for over 2 ...

A.   6 January 2010: Number 1 reason to not move in before their is an actual wedding. But since that has already happen, talk to him, tell him how much marriage means to you and that you want to get married. As a guy he may think there is no point since you already ... (read in full...)

Is there such thing as a much too sweet guy?

Q.   Is there such thing as a much too sweet guy? I'm dating a great guy he sends me good morning texts. Buys me stuff for no reason and makes me art pieces and makes sure I'm okay but I'm kinda aggravated by him. I'm so used to being neglected and stuff ...

A.   6 January 2010: He is in love..... I'm the "to nice guy", I have seen my guy friends treat there gf's like trash (cheating , disrespecting them,talking about personal stories etc.) but the girl always stay. Then there is me the nice guy that would bend over ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend won't give up his friendship with her so how do I stop being jealous?

Q.   My boyfriend has a lot of friends who are girls. This doesn't bother me in the least...except when it comes to one specific girl. I try not to let it get to me, but I am starting to feel extremely jealous of this one in particular and frustrated ...

A.   6 January 2010: OH the story of my life. My best friend is a girl, and we are very close. I have had gf's in the past that I have actually ended relationships with them because they were so jealous of our friendship. Most guys that have girls as close friends have ... (read in full...)

Am I too protective of my girlfriend?

Q.   ok so some how everyday theres always some how i get upset or pissy about what my girlfriend says or does its like always something about a guy just little things to but it still pisses me off ever sense she cheated on me but not a big deal just 2 ...

A.   6 January 2010: Ok , first off sorry that she cheated, but you have given her a second chance and second chances need a fresh start. You need to get over these feeligns or you will kill your relationship. Girls can have guy friend that are just that. I am a guy and ... (read in full...)

How to make her first time special? (and calm my nerves about it?)

Q.   I have been with my gf for 4 months and she rocks my world. Our relationship is great, but we haven't had sex yet. She's a virgin and I'm beyond nervous about it. I lost my virginity when I was 17 and it was a drunken mess. I really want to make ...

A.   3 January 2010: Thanks guys, I did a lot of thinking and I decided to just let it happen when it happens (sooner then later I hope. I will be as respectful and sweet as I can and I hope that is special enough for her.... (read in full...)

My lover wants to be watched!

Q.   hi i have been in a relationship for the past 18 months and we have both fallen in love with each other very much so. our sex live is wounderful and we are exploring each other. a few weeks ago whilst having sex i asked about what her fantasy was,...

A.   3 January 2010: NO NO NO NO NO , sex is something special between 2 people. You need to look at all aspects of this, how do you think this will affect your relationship after all is said and done. Could you look at her the same way knowing what the two of you just ... (read in full...)

Afraid 2 have sex with virgin gf

Q.   my girlfriend of 3 months is a virgin. i am not a virgin and hav been in 1 relationship so far in my life. im not looking for anything 2 serios yet due 2 my former heartache but my gf keeps pestering me for sex n im afriad 2 give it 2 her. if i take ...

A.   3 January 2010: Ok I am in some what of the same situation as you (I guess) I two am dating a virgin but unlike u I love her. Don't just take her virginity to get your rocks off man thats not cool. If you really don't care for her , break it off now, go to your ... (read in full...)

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