I think he is addicted. How can I save our relationship?
Q. OK, I realize I am too old to be having these problems (as some smart Alex people might say) so I'll pull the trigger on that first. Fine. Whatever. My boyfriend and I are struggling and I don't know if we can work and I am devastated. I ...
A. 3 November 2017: Firstly, I have someone very close to me who smokes weed very often. The first thing they were told to do when going to meetings.. 'drink instead of smoking' To me this sounded very stupid as I honestly believe alcohol is within a doubt much wors... (read in full...)
Do you ever get trust back in a relationship and if it’s possible how on earth do you get it back?
Q. I have been with my partner for just over four years now. We have had a rocky relationship, many hurdles along the way but overcome each and every one of them. I have trust issues, I don’t partially trust people and find it difficult to ope...
A. 2 November 2017: I myself have been in the circumstance unfortunately. Trust will not be gained if there is no effort from her because you simply won't want to trust her. As someone said earlier, if she isnt apologetic for her wrongs in the relationship why... (read in full...)
I don't know if I should ask a colleague out
Q. I'm 26 and have been single for around 7--8 months now since splitting with my gf of 3 yrs. I found that break up hard and I'm unsure if I want a new relationship. However I've only been with 2 girls in my whole life and I'm desperate to "get out ...
A. 31 October 2017: Go for it. You will never know otherwise. No one should make fun of you for asking out someone you like and if they do, it would make them pretty immature!
In life people say no, you just dust yourself off and keep plodding :) Life is all about ta... (read in full...)
Should I tell my dad's new wife he's cheating on her?
Q. my dad is a horrible person and a big cheater. i recently caught my dad out cheating on his new wife. No mistake about it-it was a sad site. my dad has moved on and he has his own family--and his new wife has tried hard to be nice to us--even...
A. 31 October 2017: What stays in the dark will soon come to light. Which doesn't necessarily mean you telling her. In life things happen to people that we wish we could prevent or change in some way or another. This situation puts you in the middle and sounds ... (read in full...)
Cannabis killing our marriage
Q. I have been with my wife for 5 years and been great . A few months before the wedding my wife started smoking cannabis and it's now really effecting our marriage and relationships.. . What makes it worse is that I love her so much and I'm not...
A. 31 October 2017: Cannabis can be very addictive. Almost all of my family members smoke it except me. My advice to you, is maybe be supportive of her. Is there any underlying issues as to why it started? Maybe compromise on it and discuss cutting down if it's ... (read in full...)
Should we end our friendship? We will never have our parent's blessing
Q. I like her and she likes me. We talk everyday. She checks all the boxes for wife material in my book. We are currently only friends and whenever we slip into flirting one of us pull back. We're of different religions. We will never have our ...
A. 31 October 2017: Honestly,Someone close to me recently got married to someone of another religion. If you truly love her, who is anyone to stand in the way. Love is more than religions and differences. Connections go way beyond that. If you feel as though it could ... (read in full...)
Should I cut ties with my family to appease my wife?
Q. My wife and I are 10 years happily married with a 5 year old child. An issue has arisen recently that is causing great trauma and I would be very grateful of some worldly-wise advice and help to find a way forward. We like in the UK , I am fr...
A. 31 October 2017: Sounds like a clash of culture. I have had the same problems as my partners family cam over to the UK 20 years ago. A woman with another culture means that they may have a different understanding to those who have been born and brought up here. Fo... (read in full...)
Am I asking too little of him?
Q. I have posted before and thankfully we solved a little issue in our relationship. This may be hella stupid for me to be resentful of how he treated his ex, but I kind of am. Idk how true this is, I'm only hearing his side of the story, but ...
A. 31 October 2017: It's fine to want a little more effort from someone you care about.
Someone once told me never to expect anything from anyone otherwise you will end up disappointed and I definitely believe that because in the past i've expected more and been hurt... (read in full...)
My ex wants me permanently in the background and have a baby mother too!
Q. Im good frinds with my ex. We are very close. We broke up 5 yrs ago, but during those 5 yrs we have been sleeping with each other. We talked about getting back together and trying for a baby.... But I told him im not ready.He was ok with this...
A. 31 October 2017: When you have been with someone for a very long time it can be so difficult to let go and because you are still seeing him sexually, your spiritually connected. May sound crazy but your feelings will never change towards him until that changes. I ... (read in full...)
I love my long term partner but feel a spark for a coworker!
Q. Hi, i'm in a situation i never thought i'd be and i need advice, because i can't talk about it with anyone..I'm in a longterm relationship (7 years). I love my partner, although i can't deny that our relationship is much of a rutine now. We live ...
A. 31 October 2017: Hey anonymous, I recommend you watch this film 'Temptation' by Tyler Perry. It is a real eye-opener! Although things do not seem alive with your current partner, I believe if you truly love him.. you will get through it. The easiest thing a pers... (read in full...)
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