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Facebook use by my husband is destroying our marriage. What can I do to fix this problem?

Q.   I found out a week ago that my husband of 16 years has been comunicating with Facebook Poker young women, that look, well..."slutty", he doesn't know them, in fact, some are not even American. Some of the things that I saw that he wrote to these ...

A.   22 January 2011: I have a story to share. My own mother has gotten addicted to FaceBook and has pretty much disappeared from my family's life. Of course, she lives at home with us but her lack of responsibility or effort in our family's relationships compared to her ... (read in full...)

Florida isn't in the Midwest!

Q.   I've been in a long distance relationship for 5 years. This weekend, I found out on the internet that my lover is attending a conference in Florida. He works in the midwest and during a phone conversation, he told me the conference was in the ...

A.   13 November 2010: If he's lying, he's hiding something. Let him know. See what he has to say. Then work it out from there. I refuse to tell someone to dump someone, without knowing the full deal. But let your intuition guide you :) Wishing you all the best.... (read in full...)

Do guys usually open up after sex?

Q.   Do guys usually open up after sex? What makes them want to talk about their personal stuff and feelings?...

A.   13 November 2010: Sex is a completely different unit to feelings. Just because you guys are having sex, doesn't necessarily mean he will open up. And vice versa. If you want to get emotionally intimate, it takes a lot of time. Go on dates. Guys are generally very ... (read in full...)

I'm having a hard time understanding.

Q.   Hi all, I'm in desperate need of advice. I am an asian girl, 5 8, skinny and fit. I have been told I am pretty, sexy, hot many times by many of my friends, heard that guys have said this about my through word of mouth. I even tried online dat...

A.   13 November 2010: Chill. NOTHING is wrong with you. Just because you're getting attention elsewhere, doesn't mean you can't get attention from "guys at your college". I hate to say this, but this isn't about your looks. It's about your ego. You get attention, just ... (read in full...)

I know she loves me but it was her call to end it!

Q.   Hi guys my ex broke up with me after 4 years of living and travelling together about 6 weeks ago, it was reasonably amicable, everything split and done fairly no arguments, no emotional outbursts, she moved out I got rid of the house etc.. it was a ...

A.   13 November 2010: Leave. Cut off all communication. I understand how hard this must be for you. Love can make us all blind. But just leave. Silence speaks louder than words. She knows what you want. But if she tells to shutup and leave. Then that's all you can do. ... (read in full...)

She has to tell me her every move!

Q.   My girlfriend texts me continuously throughout the entire day, I wouldn't mind it as much but the stuff she says is completely pointless and is a play by play of her day. Things like I'm leaving for New York, I'm in New York, oh wait no we're not. I ...

A.   13 November 2010: Let her know her behaviour is irritating you. If she gets mad over that, leave her. If anything, she should be the one to change this aspect of her. You've always got a choice. And if you truly care about her, you'll just let it be. But if it ... (read in full...)

Ex and I keep going back to each other but he's got a girlfriend!

Q.   My ex was everything I ever wanted, and we fit together perfectly. And yet after 3 and a half years it falls apart. It had been going badly for a couple of months, and there were times when i completely did not trust him. And it was all over one ...

A.   13 November 2010: I am in exactly the same situation. It hurts. And people say "move on, get him out of your life." But it is definitely easier said than done. But I guess, it's all we can really do. There's a line. And "love" can make people blind. Think about the ... (read in full...)

I can't bring myself to love him!

Q.   So there's this guy that's incredibly sweet to me, treats me like no one has ever treated me, and there's no question that he loves me and all my flaws unconditionally. The problem is I can't seem to actually love him back. We have so much in ...

A.   13 November 2010: It's simple. Don't go for it. One day you'll find someone you'll go crazy over. And that's what makes 'love' worth it. If you don't want him, then you don't need it. Wish you all the best.... (read in full...)

There's no label on this relationship.

Q.   For the past few months, I've been sort of seeing this guy. To be brief, I feel that there some chemistry between us; we have been hanging out together alone and with friends, we've slept together and recently spent the night together. It feels as ...

A.   13 November 2010: So there is no label to your relationship. But you definitely need to talk things out. If there's some sort of "understanding", maybe he'll understand. But remember, honesty is the best policy. Especially when you're about to start a relationship ... (read in full...)

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