How Personal Bias and Gender Stereotypes can Influence Advice
Q. I write this article knowing full well it will not be received very well by some. I can only hope that this article will still be allowed due to the merits of the argument I am presenting. I have noticed on multiple occasions a prevalent double...
A. 18 March 2011: yes definitely.. Btw if you had asked me for advice on the subject " she won't go down on me" i would have said thats sad for you but maybe you should give her some time. But if a girl had said "he won't go down on me" i would have said he must be ... (read in full...)
What happened to my sweet girl? Cant she see that I love her?
Q. Ok this is for the girls but if you lads know I'd like to hear you to. So say you got 2 girls. Girl A's a super bitch that don't chase a lad and don't let him treat her like crap and Girl B's a sweet rosebud who chase after a lad and keep being ...
A. 18 March 2011: the sweet girl has given all she can - till you make it a make it break it situation- she doesn't have anything to give anymore after that
while the "bitch" hasn't and she can afford to give you..
why are you doing this to two girls?
messing u... (read in full...)
My boyfriend flirted with a girl in a bar and then told me!
Q. Hello everyone. Please help me, I’d appreciate some honest feedback. Me and my bf have had a tricky relationship at the best of times. We are both complex artistic people. I was a heroin addict years ago and I probably have mild mental health i...
A. 18 March 2011: in general if a problem arises and a guy doesn't discuss it then he's gonna leave you.. but your bf told you about it i'm not sure if he told you what he was feeling so that you two can discuss it or just out of frustration but i think you should d... (read in full...)
How Personal Bias and Gender Stereotypes can Influence Advice
Q. I write this article knowing full well it will not be received very well by some. I can only hope that this article will still be allowed due to the merits of the argument I am presenting. I have noticed on multiple occasions a prevalent double...
A. 18 March 2011: i think what i'm trying to say is that.. women are structured to think in a different way... and men are structured to think in a different way.. our view on what a woman and man is/ should be is nurtured since childhood.. by our society.. by our ... (read in full...)
How Personal Bias and Gender Stereotypes can Influence Advice
Q. I write this article knowing full well it will not be received very well by some. I can only hope that this article will still be allowed due to the merits of the argument I am presenting. I have noticed on multiple occasions a prevalent double...
A. 17 March 2011: i think problem is society linked power with man and beauty with women.. which is how the world sadly works.. i think power and femininity do not go hand in hand.. so when a woman becomes too powerful.. its not feminine anymore.. and thats a bias.. ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and sex is daunting!
Q. I am 19 years old and i am still a virgin. I am ready to finally have sex but i find it very daunting and being that intimate with someone is rather scary. I have someone i would like to be my first but i keep avoiding it because of this. How ca...
A. 17 March 2011: guys can commit to a girl just to have sex- its a known fact.. please do not push yourself.. if he leaves you or something happens after you've had sex.. it will be crushing.. so don't do it until you know its the right time.. i hope he did not ask ... (read in full...)
Should I remain a friend? Or make my move? Despite his Gf, who he complains about.
Q. i like this guy but he has a girlfriend...sounds bad yes i know but he always bitches about her ... i feel like we have so much chemistry and we hang out a lot. what do i do stay a friend to him or try to make a move???...
A. 16 March 2011: many guys have told me this - guys usually talk about their bad relationship with girls to get sympathy and their interest.. and he is doing the same. just beware cause he might be looking for a rebound to just give him the support he requires.. ... (read in full...)
What is he doing on facebook?
Q. Help. My boyfriend of 5 months is constantly adding 'random young girls' on facebook. Since January he has added 100 girls. As soon as he adds them he removes them from his wall, so it looks like he never uses facebook. He never writes on his wall ...
A. 16 March 2011: i think he is doing what you think he is doing. you should tell him of your concerns. if he doesn't say anything.. leave him.. ... (read in full...)
Marriage has gone from husband/wife to mother/father
Q. I've been married for 7 years, and have two beautiful children who mean the absolute world to me. Since our first child was born, our relationship seemed to go from husband and wife to father and mother, with the entire emphasis of our relation...
A. 16 March 2011: that is very sad.. i think you need to tell your wife this.. how you are feeling.. just give her time.. be affectionate to her.. don't wait for her .. you initiate the romance.. take her out for a dinner.. go somewhere for a vacation just you and ... (read in full...)
When we fight boyfriend says really mean things. Does he mean them?
Q. I feel so silly writing this but here goes...I've been seeing this guy for just over a year now. To be honest I've never been completely sure about him as he seems to have some issues, but I do care A LOT about him and he does make me happy, most of ...
A. 16 March 2011: your guy sounds nuts, sorry to put it that way ... i think he is insecure which is making him act like that.. plus he's 21 which is pretty young which makes him a lil immature, i think he trusts you that is the reason why he is with you.. also ... (read in full...)
Will he betray me?
Q. i have a boyfriend whom i met online. we have never met. we have been talking for a while now over the phone and its recently that we decided to be more than just friends. i trust him but there are days.. Especially cause he is younger than me... ...
A. 16 March 2011: thank you for your comments.. i think i will meet him.. once before making a decision :) thnx again... (read in full...)
Whose fault is it? What do I do?
Q. hi i m 21 yrs of age, i had always been somewhat a reserved kind of person.to be frank till today i havent made much friends as in whom i would call true friends. i had a best friend when i was in high school but now doesnt even talk to me pretends...
A. 15 March 2011: you don't really have to share your secrets with anyone. just tell her what you feel comfortable talking about. don't tell her anything else. tell her you don't have any secrets. most of the time its better not to talk about your secrets with any... (read in full...)
I lied about my photo and don't understand the guy's response
Q. I've recently been talking to this guy and I lied to him about my picture. I finally came clean and and he said to me "I'm disappointed in you, but I don't know if I can be." what exactly does that mean? ...
A. 14 March 2011: it's online .. no one is upfront about who they are.. so what i think he means is that he is disappointed in you but he isn't anyone close ( aka just online friend) so he is not sure if he has the right to be disappointed in you. but just ask him ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and my boyfriend wants sex
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a while now and recently he's been wanting more from me. I'm only 14 and he's asked me for sex, he is the same age too. I like him but I'm scared he's using me for sex or just too look good. I'm really worried in-case ...
A. 14 March 2011: at 14 he's just using you for sex trust us all... and at 14 it will not feel good at all... it's gonna be a regret you will have to live with.. so tell your bf a firm - NO. if he loves you- really loves you- he will understand... (read in full...)
I was cheated upon and although we're trying to make it work again, I cant get over it...
Q. Hi all, About two years ago I seperated with my wife of hour years because I wasn't happy in the relationship. There was no big drama, we had just got together far too young and hadn't matured before marriage. A few months later I met a girl an...
A. 14 March 2011: i think the bottomline is you are not being able to get over this. so you should tell her and see how she responds.. if she says she's gonna work it out with you as in she'll help you to trust her - work it out - then do that.. and see how it goes.. ... (read in full...)
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