New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

*francy

Namibia  (Female   XML/RSS

Like what she writes?
... Add *francy to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *francy a private message

*francy's Ratings
Excellent44%
Average33%
Poor22%
*francy's profile:

am a very helpful and emotional intelligent lady.. i live in windhoek, i want to get help and answers to my questions from dear cupid pipz. my relationship is a bit complicated at the current moment. am very much interested in dear cupid and i would like to answer any question that i can and to the best level of my capacity.

I don't want to lose the trust of my b/f's daughter but I do think she pushes the boundaries!

Q.   I'm in a relationship (for 6 years already) and my boyfriend has an 11 year old daughter. I'm very lucky in the sense that she loves me very much. We get along great and I feel she trusts me 100%. I, myself, does not have any kids of my own and ...

A.   15 November 2011: i think you are just doing the right thing... (read in full...)

Getting over my ex 11 years later?

Q.   I have been married to my current husband for almost nine years. We are a very happy couple, always together. We both have a child from a previous marriage. The problem is, that I still to this day cannot fully get over my ex. Is it because ...

A.   25 October 2010: am feeling you sweet darling. am in the same situation as you but let me tell you my secret. i had a boyfriend during my high school time until my first year at the college. i thought he was my everything. at the beginning of my second year i met ... (read in full...)

I am thinking bad things about him, what do I do to erase it from my mind?

Q.   i love this guy very much that every time i think of him i cry.. he has told me that am madam boss but i find it hard to believe. he also told me that he loves me and that if i do not know i should know its true he loves me.. the thing is am scared ...

A.   15 April 2010: thank you sunkanya though we finally let go of each other.. i still cry... but now am in a happy relationship and am very grateful for the gift..... (read in full...)

Seeing each other too much?

Q.   I see my girlfriend almost everyday or every other day as she only lives a few roads away. We love seeing each other but im a little worried were seeing each other too much and that we're getting a bit bored. Is it possible that we're seeing eac...

A.   19 August 2009: hey brother , i might not be an expert when it comes to relationships where by the two partner are close to each other as am used to long distance relationships. but the point is i think seeing each other every day aint really a problem unless you ... (read in full...)

I think I still love my ex even though I'm married and haven't seen him for 6 years!

Q.   I've been married for three years and I do not enjoy sex with my husband. My ex-boyfriend (before I met my husband) was very good in bed and I think I still love him. I haven't seen him for 6 years no but still think about him. What should I do?...

A.   30 July 2009: my friend the best thing you can do for yourself is to forget about him or else this will create a huge problem in your marriage. but otherwise if you think your ex still loves you , you can always make a you turn and divorce your current husband ... (read in full...)

Was involved with 2 boys who are cousins. Now what?

Q.   i was dating two cousins (T and S) when T found out he confronted me and ordered me to choose between the two of them, because i love T, i chose him and end things with S but i did'nt let him(S) know it was over so he kept on telling people that...

A.   23 April 2009: XG my love thank you for the comfort and good advice.. wish you all the best in life too... unlike kelly who insulted me rather then helping me... u are so sweet god bless you.. much loveaa but you kelly learn some manners please.... (read in full...)

Who should I choose? "C" or "R"?

Q.   ok so i have been going out with my bf for just over a year now. my bf ("C") has always known that i have been really close with his brother ("R") but it has only been a friendly jokey type of thing if you no what i mean, its just like hugs and ...

A.   8 April 2009: gal, it is not fair to love two brothers , even though you made it clear that you love "R" YOU SHOULD NOT GO FOR HIM AT ALL! try keeping distant from the two of them, and see how things goes.. hey in some way i think "R" is a snitch and thos... (read in full...)

Am I wrong for asking her to stop talking to him?

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost a year. We recently broke up for like 3 weeks and then got back together. During the 3 weeks, she was seeing another guy quite frequently, hooking up with him several times. And now that we're back...

A.   4 April 2009: well, trusting her depends on how she treats you. if she treats you the way you want yes you should trust. am so curious about what caused you guys to break up. hope it is not cheating but if it is cheating then trust should be gained back afte... (read in full...)

How should I convince him to forgive and forget our pasts?

Q.   My ex has made it clear that he is seeing some else because he cannot trust a girl who cheated on him with a cousin (I mean I cheated on him with a cousin)! the thing is I want him back and am really sure.. he asked me to suggest something that the ...

A.   31 March 2009: thanx my frinends. we have only dated for a year.. ... (read in full...)

I love my teacher and I think she loves me back :)

Q.   im 16 and shes 27.lets call her lizzy. shes my chef course teacher. lizzy calls me pretty and she gave me a flower 2day :) she touches my thigh and my shoulders. winks at me all the time and smirks a lot at me and shes always offering to help ...

A.   25 March 2009: baby boy i think your teacher loves you back but that does not mean she want to go out with you.by that i mean dating with you. do not just jump to conclusions though she expressed some interest in you. besides she is your teacher and ... (read in full...)

I don't know if I should break up with my LD b/f or not?

Q.   I dont know if I should break up with my long distance bf or not. Now, usually, I am the type of person who is very determined and commited to making something work, especialy realtionships. I dont give up easily on things- I always try my ha...

A.   13 March 2009: hmmm girl i do not know what i should really tell you but you are almost in the same situation as me......... the only thing is should tell you is have proofs by trying to catch him with a girl in bed or something by then you can make a decision ... ... (read in full...)

Can't get my ex LDR bf out ouf my head! Help!

Q.   I had a long distance relationship with a guy whom i have never met. We are chatting for the last 4 year. He promised to marry me and showed me many dreams. I trusted him so much. Everyday i spent 6 to 7 hours chatting with him. He always showed me t...

A.   11 March 2009: dearest, i do not understand why you fell deep in love with a man you have never seen before.. and you do not even know his back ground.. i think you should really forget this guy coz by judging the way he deceived you it showed me that this guy ... (read in full...)

How can I get him to understand my situation?

Q.   i was dating a guy who is very cute and the same age as me, currently i broke up with him because am in love with someone else, the problem is he does not want to understand, he still wants me date with him even though am ...

A.   6 November 2008: THANKS A LOT MY FRIENDS HOPE U WILL HELP ME NEXT TIME AGAIN............................ LOVE TO ALL DA DEAR CUPID PIPZ....... (read in full...)

What should I do when I see him? Should I say Hi?

Q.   A couple of months ago, i decided to get a friend to ask a boy out for me, because i really liked him and i was too busy crying because it was the last day of school lol, and we were both going to different schools to each other after that. My ...

A.   31 October 2008: If the guy still likes you too, he will react first when he sees you but if he did nt react it means he is either dating someone else or he does not wanna date with you anymore. i suggest you should hug him and then greet each other well and see ... (read in full...)

Would he still want to go out with me after I played his best friend?

Q.   The guy that I am in love with just found out that I am in love with him, he loves me too but I also used to chat with him using someone else`s identity not mine, he also told my friend that he has a feeling am the one he was chatting to. The ...

A.   29 October 2008: Oh yeah I mean I am dating his best friend currently, I do not know how I happened but I just found my self trapped in it, but still I like the other one I liked ever since not the one I am dating. Well I used a false identity to know him better ... (read in full...)

How can I manage the practicalities of my long-distance relationship?

Q.   I have an 18-year-old girlfriend (I'm 17) who lives in England, and I live in Nevada. I love her with all my heart; I truly know I'm in love with her and I can honestly see myself spending the rest of my life with her. The problem is, even though I ...

A.   29 October 2008: My dearest friend, love is something that you cannot change, involving yourself in more than one relationship will just be a headache, you better have one for the sake of your happiness. Speaking of not sure if she is the woman of your life, I ... (read in full...)

My 60 year old teacher crush that I can't get over, someone please help?

Q.   I've had this problem for a very long time, and I've tried asking for advice from many people, but no one has cheered me up about this. When I was in 7th grade, I somehow developed a crush on my PE teacher, even though he had white hair, wrinkles...

A.   24 October 2008:  oh, girl friendship will just be too risky , you might end up falling in love with him for the second time, i suggest you forget this guy for good coz the more you get closer to him the more those feelings re- grow.... (read in full...)

My 60 year old teacher crush that I can't get over, someone please help?

Q.   I've had this problem for a very long time, and I've tried asking for advice from many people, but no one has cheered me up about this. When I was in 7th grade, I somehow developed a crush on my PE teacher, even though he had white hair, wrinkles...

A.   23 October 2008:  sweet pie, i understand the pain you are feeling right now , to be rejected by someone you really love is very hard to accept but i want to make you aware of something, what if you guys happen to go out and something bad happens? what would you ... (read in full...)

I fell in love in the library - but is he just following me around?

Q.   i met a guy in my school library, we interacted a bit and i fell in love with him, he also seemed to like me because he wanted us to chat for long, the problem was he was buzzy and i was buzzy as well. when the time came for me to go home i left ...

A.   22 October 2008:  thanks my dear friends for helping me. am very satisfied with what you gave me.luv to all of you.... (read in full...)

What should I do to make this right?

Q.   my best friend is kind of obsessed with this guy we go to school with named ''todd'' who's a year older than us and is a sophomore. she knows practically every single thing about him: his hobbies,b-day,class schedule, middle name, everything. well, ...

A.   22 October 2008:  my friend if you know you love him do not let your friend ruin your relationship, never. but the biggest mistake you did was not telling her that you had a ka fling going on between you guyz, knowing she loves him. for now i think you should ... (read in full...)

How can I manage the practicalities of my long-distance relationship?

Q.   I have an 18-year-old girlfriend (I'm 17) who lives in England, and I live in Nevada. I love her with all my heart; I truly know I'm in love with her and I can honestly see myself spending the rest of my life with her. The problem is, even though I ...

A.   21 October 2008:  hi sweetheart. reading your question brought some bad ideas on my mind and to answer it might hurt me a lot, never-the less i will try to give you what i can. well, i perfectly understand your question and your problem, but first i do have a ... (read in full...)

My biggest crush at school.

Q.   I have a crush on a guy in my school, and whenever I stay behind after school with the intention to meet up we never get the chance to, but just after some few hours I left school my friend would tell me he was asking for me. What should I do to ...

A.   14 October 2008:  thank you for the good advice people. I currently have his number and we chatted but then I pretended to be some one else, I told him that I like him but he said he is not dating and he doesn't think he will do so for the rest of this year. Now ... (read in full...)

*francy's friends

These are mutual friends, so *francy has added them and they have added *francy!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0937504999965313!