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Why don't I want to give my husband any affection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1106 days ago

28 October 2021 (F) - I've gone off sex with my husband but I still really love him and am scared he's going to leave me eventually because of it. It's not just sex, I just don't want any kind of affection off him. Off anyone really. No hugging, no kissing, no holding ...

I'm not sure where I stand with this guy, both sexually and otherwise

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1108 days ago

28 October 2021 (F) - I've been seeing a guy 22, I'm 33. We clicked instantly with the same interests it made it easy to talk and get into hours of conversation at a time. He said he wanted to go out and we did and had a great time. We talked for hours and it felt very ...

My wife and a stranger having sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1111 days ago

24 October 2021 (M) - Ive always have been interested in watching my wife sleep with a random guy. Shes never joked about anything like that so im unsure on how she would react. How do i go about bringing it up without upsetting her?...

How do I have sex with my aunt in the bedroom

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1111 days ago

21 October 2021 (M) - my aunt has romantic feelings for me and i feel the same way with her, and she keeps staring at me sexually and it kind of turns me on the way she does that. and i wish that we could make love in the bedroom (with protection of course) and as a teen ...

My husband wants me to get pregnant by his gay friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1096 days ago

21 October 2021 (F) - I have been with my husband for 3.5 years, but we've been together for 9 years in total. The big issue here is kids, we both want them, yet my husband has other ideas about how and it's caused arguments. He wants me to sleep with his frien...

Am I just Easy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1115 days ago

20 October 2021 (F) - I’ve spent the past 2 nights with a lad I only met last week. I don’t even want to be in a relationship with him but he was really nice to me after I got fat-shamed by a tinder date in a bar, so to be completely frank I’ve thrown myself at him. Am I ...

Our conversations have quickly escalated into sexting

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1116 days ago

19 October 2021 (F) - I approached a guy (call him ALEX) on social media. Alex is the cousin of one of my sister's friend. We didn't know each other then. I wrote to him to say hi. But the convo escalated quickly into about sex. And we sexted. I immediately regretted it ...

Please help me stop uttering other people’s name during sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1119 days ago

18 October 2021 (F) - I am currently dating this guy who is amazing inside and out and he satisfied me much in bed as well. But the problem is I sometimes mentioned other man’s name during sex. And yet i have not slept with those guys i have mentioned or any guys that ...

I don’t know if I should stay with him or not, as the more I’m getting to know him, it sounds like everything is all his way or the highway.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1125 days ago

9 October 2021 (F) - I’ve been dating a man who’s older than me. He was all full on with me at the start, I think I was being love bombed looking back on it and he was seeing a future with me. The first couple of months was difficult for us to see each other as h...

Is it normal at my age to be waking up like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1128 days ago

8 October 2021 (M) - Hi folks, specifically the guys. I'm 46 and recently I've been waking up at about 4am by a rock hard, but quite uncomfortable erection. I wouldn't say it's painful, but it definitely isn't pleasant feeling, it literally wakes me up, and it's ha...