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Archived questions from: October, 2018 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I need your thoughts on how to sort this situation.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2214 days ago

28 October 2018 (F) - Recently with the past 2 months, my boyfriend of nine years and I ended our relationship. Our relationship had it’s good points, but overall was very toxic and tumultuous. He has a pre-teen daughter and myself an 11-year-old son. He’s been my ...

Lover wants to stay with his children for now

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2213 days ago

28 October 2018 (F) - My lover cannot live with me just yet because he still wants to live with his children who are 21 and 19.....He said they still need him .... He doesn’t love his wife... they share no interests as a couple, just stayed married for their kids sake... ...

I wont to move across country and leave this life behind, but worry if I am doing the right thing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2217 days ago

24 October 2018 (F) - Should I move across the country? I have grown up in New York - originally born in Europe but immigrate here when I was 9. I am 33 now single female and for my education oout if the way and currently working 89 hours a week to pay off my debt/loans ...

My mother's controlling attitude has put a huge strain on my marriage and I was too much of a coward to deal with her. What do I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2218 days ago

23 October 2018 (M) - I dated my wife for 5 years, now we are happily married for 6 years with 4kids. My mother was ok with her the first 2 years of us being together but after that she hated my wife for no reason. My mother became jealous of our relationship then she ...

Does introducing a girl to your family mean anything special?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2218 days ago

23 October 2018 (F) - We have been dating for 7 months. I am 32 and his age is 41 years old. During the 7 months, he said he does not introducr everone to his fanily. He only introduces people are special for him. After 7 months, he said he wants to have a future with me ...

I need emotional support which my husband can't give me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2220 days ago

21 October 2018 (F) - Hi everyone.. its been months since my last post here. I had my 2 weeks old son now after long labor and he is perfect. Im the one who posted about trouble with my husband and mother in law. Things are not getting better. Im still living in my in ...

I have a question about porn.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2218 days ago

21 October 2018 (M) - I have a question about porn. My grandparents are pretty strict and almost never leave the house. Well, they do but Grandma works part time and Grandpa is retired and is actually a Deacon but they are never gone at the same time unless I'm in ...

Can I just turn off some thoughts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2221 days ago

19 October 2018 (M) - I have very strong romantic feelings for my cousin and I know its wrong even if she is my step cousin I know its wrong. The problem is I suspect she feels the same way. She plays with her hair when she speaks to me, tries to get closer to me whe...

Should I give my ex money back for a trip that he won't be taking with my family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2225 days ago

16 October 2018 (F) - Hey guys. Since my last post I've taken your advice and no longer visit my exs social media accounts. I am actually in the process of moving on and have even met someone else :) I'm just writing because it's coming to the time where I sign ...

I believe my husband has sick fantasies about my daughter. She trusts him. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2217 days ago

16 October 2018 (F) - I found a spare phone in my husband's truck and saved to his favorites was "Stepdaughter fucks step dad".. I have a beautiful 18 year old daughter that lives with us . I'm leaving him because to me, that is unacceptable and I will never look at him ...

I've been with him for 15 years. Am I stupid?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2227 days ago

15 October 2018 (F) - Am I being dumb? I have been with my partner for 15 years We have 2 children together. His mum is constantly on the phone texting call and bitching about me. I have recently started a new Job, but that's more for her to bitch about me. I n...

How do we announce his cancer diagnosis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2230 days ago

13 October 2018 (M) - My younger brother is 33 years old and moved back in with his parents. Only a few people know that it is because he waa diagnose with brain cancer and he moved back in with our parents to make it easier f or us (family and friends) to help him. ...

How do you tell if your mother is a narcissist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2229 days ago

13 October 2018 (F) - I know my mom is a narcissist. Or maybe I am. I don't know. I hope not....My question is ... how do you tell? Little bit of back story... I started watching Bates Motel and I'm noticing some overlap when the show is juxtaposed with my real lif...

My boyfriend’s family getting in the way of our relationship and they want to take my baby away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2230 days ago

12 October 2018 (F) - I am really overwhelmed by a situation going on in my personal life with my partner. I am a mom of two, we live together, we have a one year old, I have a daughter and we live in an appartment inside his mom and step dad’s house who are not marr...

How can we help this young man whose mother threw him out and bad mouths him to his own family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2231 days ago

10 October 2018 (F) - How can we make this better for this child? A few years ago, my family brought in a 13 year old troubled child and raised him as his Mum wanted nothing to do with him. She threw him out of the house with nothing but the clothes he was wearing. ...

I am uncertain if my actions were correct in the moments before my father passed away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2232 days ago

10 October 2018 (F) - My dad died 4 weeks ago. The day he died, my mom, myself, my 4 siblings and other extended family were in and out of the hospital room. My dad went in for some tests, was in the hospital for almost a week, and was told he could go home the morning ...

My partner wont make amends with my mother.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2233 days ago

8 October 2018 (F) - Hi there, My partner and I had an argument the other evening and it blew off on a tangent to him calling my mother poisonous, and he told me to tell my mother to "be less poisonous around him" I did as he asked, but tried to break it gen...

My wife's adult children are bums whose lifestyles I pay for.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2237 days ago

5 October 2018 (M) - Hi all, I have a problem. First off, I've been married for over 21 years. We largely get along -- mostly because I don't complain about much. During that time, I have raised my wife's 2 children from her previous marriage. They are cur...

20 years apart, is it okay to see each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2240 days ago

1 October 2018 (M) - I have a small group of close friends that I socialize with regularly and we're mostly all about the same age range (40s) - and I'm 46. A while back one of the friends started bringing around another friend (they're both nurses and work together) ...

What is it about women like this, who are seemingly very ordinary both in looks and nature, that still have their partners in rapt attention?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2242 days ago

1 October 2018 (F) - I'm probably going to get a lot of flak for asking this question but I'll go ahead anyway. I've been married for 3 years to a wonderful man. He's kind, respectful of me, a great husband and a wonderful father to our daughter. She is our world and...

My parents are trying to take my land!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2241 days ago

1 October 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, my story might be shocking to all but im desperate to find an advice. I'm a filipina. I came from the family I can called dysfunctional family. I will try to make the story short . My parents are extreme abusive not only physically but ...

On social media he blocks me, unblocks me, friends me then unfriends, I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2242 days ago

1 October 2018 (F) - I have no idea where to begin I am only hoping you all can offer some advice. So I was with my ex for three years, we were engaged at one point, but I broke it off after our twin babies were born stillborn. We stayed in a relationship we just ...