What to do to my body to make the first time special? Paint my toenails? Shave my pubic area?...
Q. Just a question. Planning on sleeping with a guy this weekend and am wondering if theres anything I can do ot my body to make it extra nice? Should I shave my pubic area? Paint my toenails? Wear perfume? Scented body mosturiser?...
A. 10 March 2008: trim it. shave legs. paint toe nails. watch your breath -- tooth brush in the purse! Good luck! Have fun!... (read in full...)
How do I show up to have a Bikini wax?
Q. I want to get my Bikini waxed but I am a very self conscious person and I am very anxious at the thoughts of going because I don't know if I should wear full undies or a thong or what... Please help me relax and offer your best advise... ...
A. 27 February 2008: Congrats on your wax! Call the salon and ask what to wear. I usually get a "designer" which is kind of a cross between a brazilian and a bikini wax (it's a special shape like a heart or a "potter bolt" which my waxer tells me is very popular). My ... (read in full...)
How can I react if my friend is pregant??
Q. Hey. One of my best friends thinks she could be pregnant, and she's been getting bad stomach pains for the last three days... I'm going to town with her at the weekend and we are going to get a pregnancy test. I'm worried about how to react if she ...
A. 27 February 2008: She needs a med exam. You help her by encouraging her to get one. You are young so you may not be aware that stomach pains are NOT an early sign of pregancy. She may have another issue -- including appendix issues which may be life threatening. ... (read in full...)
He doesn't understand how angry I am...but wouldnt you be??
Q. I would like to know if i am asking too much of my husband; from day one, i tried to keep things spicey in the b.room, i would lay rose petals on the bed, put candles out, dress provacativly, i made sure his meals were always there right after ...
A. 27 February 2008: You give and give and he took and took and now you are angry so you stopped giving and now he wants to stop too. Revenge isn't something on which to base a loving relationship. Who knew? Enough! Tell him you are angry. "honey, I know you love ... (read in full...)
We slept together and now he is avoiding me...what happened??
Q. So after 3 weeks of dating and getting to know this guy who was planning future (months ahead) dates for us... we slept together. Now he is avoiding me? What happened?...
A. 27 February 2008: so, what now. You are sure that "I slept with him and he stops calling. All men are pigs! That's all he wanted! etc etc misogynist anti-factual rant about how "men are genetically pre-disposed...." Garbage all of it. Here's your issue. He ... (read in full...)
I've just got out of a relationship...but could be pregant...what do I do??
Q. I just got out of a long relationship and think im pregant. What do i do! im young and confused....
A. 27 February 2008: (1) find out if you are pregnant. (2) if you are, find someone you trust and who has no agenda on what you do (i.e. not your ex, not your pro-life best bud, not your your anti-ex mother) to talk with. If you don't have someone in your life who ... (read in full...)
Could you suggest flirty, naughty nicknames for guys?...
Q. Ive been talking to this guy for a while now and he calls me loads of different nicknames... But what can i call him? Flirty, love or naughty nicknames... ...
A. 27 February 2008: It's all in how you say it. lover boy my man sweet cheeks (would that make him smile?) dimples (if he has them) shug (like a southern "su"gar) I call my man "blue eyes" since he knows I find his blue eyes (mine are brown) very attractive. ... (read in full...)
Please help so I can stop stressing about unwanted pregnancy!
Q. Hii all, well the only way to start this is that i've managed to get myself into a right old panic atm. Thing is i had sex with my boyfriend without using a condom, stupid idea i know but i am on the contraceptive pill. I know all about th...
A. 27 February 2008: Oh, sweetie. We've all been there. Take a deep breath. On the pill (you take it every day, right? No missing a day?), you have very very little chance of getting pregnant. I know some (mostly religious nuts) twist it around and say that ... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with my friend, however I doubt a relationship would be possible. How do I learn to love him as just a friend?
Q. Right this is really hard but i've never really had a bf before and have fell in love with a friend of mine. We havent been friends long and are not that close but are on the same course. The thing is i thought he liked me at first because he used ...
A. 27 February 2008: Get out of your way. let me rephrase your question so you understand (removing the dumb stuff about never having had a bf, what your friends think, what you think he thinks, etc etc --this is all just so much noise to distract you). You have met a ... (read in full...)
Why does he need time to think before marriage? Has something changed recently, for him to hesitate?
Q. I am engaged currently and we had a date picked out already but now he is saying he needs time to think about getting married now. I can't be mad because he is being honest, but at the same time what do i do? I know that i love him and want to spend ...
A. 27 February 2008: why are you writing to this column? What did you ask him? You decided to get married and set a date. You should be wild with "I can't wait!" both of you; instead you hear, "Wait a minute". His telling you this up-front is commendable, you are ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him what happened at the party or forget about it??
Q. I went to a party and got realy wasted with my freinds boyfreind i dont remember anything but i do remember waking up next to him with both my pants and underwear on backwards yea i know its wierd but he never said anything so i left without him ...
A. 27 February 2008: You ARE STUPID. Ok, got that off my chest. I am unlcear from your question whether you (1) suspect you are a slut for having sex with your friends boyfriend, (2) want to ensure that your friend thinks "she doesn't remember" when she finds out you ... (read in full...)
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