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writes:I'm 15 and I wanna let a guy go down there. I want to shave but I don't because I don't have the right equipment and I don't wanna pay the consequences.The boy I'm planning it with really likes me and I like him and I know he really does because he doesn't tell people his feelings. He is honest and I'm not just saying that. Do you think it will matter to him if I don't shave?I don't want to get embarrassed it would be horrible. Reply to this Question
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): i think it is up to you.
i was in the same situation just about a week ago and my boyfriend told his friend that i didn't shave down there over text message.
i guess he forgot to delete it and i read it.
i got kind of embarrassed and i decided to shave it all off.
i hope it was the right decision.
whatever you want to do is the right choice.
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male
reader, sharkyboi98  +, writes (25 September 2007):
hmmm good question if he really likes you like you say he does then it wont matter to him just be careful and use protection x
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reader, [email address blocked]  +, writes (25 September 2007):
![[email address blocked] agony aunt](/avatars/c5bffc88-1b07-456c-b2aa-14d9aa066b62.png) Well maybe I can help. Im 14, we are about the same age right? Hmm. Ive never had sex before, but I have had a guy finger me before. &&i shaved, but not because I felt I had to, but because I wanted to. It isnt really that hard at all. Ive messed up a few times though. Do it really SLOW. trust me! when i use a regualr razor that i use to shave my legs with, it leaves is prickleyy. use a mens razor that they use to shave their face. it works mcuh better and makes it smooth. dont put too much pressure though because men razors are REALLY sharp. so be careful! Im sure you may think this is really weird to hear this coming from a person younger than you! hahah. write back. tell me what you decided to do. bye! :)
-Shanna :)
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female
reader, leanne.od +, writes (22 September 2007):
 don't shave for anyone but yourself, if you feel it would make you more confident, there's no harm.
for a tip on shaving "down there", use conditioner (yes, hair conditioner) because it leaves your skin feeling soft and moisturised and all you need is a razor, but go extra slow and be extra careful! i's not that difficult but my advice is to kneel up in the bath, it's alot easier that way.
good luck
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female
reader, Ssmit +, writes (22 September 2007):
I agree shaving or not shaving, it's a woman's choice. What do you want?
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female
reader, lily lousia +, writes (22 September 2007):
 dont feel that you have to shave because you think thats what you man wants.
by all means trim yourself up alittle if will make YOU feel better.
Remember, this is your body and you should do only what makes you feel comfortable and not what you think will make you man comfortable.
good luck
lily
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female
reader, mcbirdie +, writes (22 September 2007):
 You do not need to shave just because you want a guy to go down on you. Please do not buy into this idea--more media driven, than based on reality--that all women are shaved or waxed. That stems from the porn industry--when they were finally allowed to show full intercourse, they wanted to have as much flesh visible as possible. Most of us? Not porn stars.
Seriously, you don't even have to be "neat" as a couple other women have said to you. Genitals naturally have hair. There is nothing wrong with it. If you decide that you prefer the look of being trimmed, go for it. If you decide that you like to shave or wax your bikini line, or even all of it, go for it. But do it because you like the look of it, not because you think men won't want to go down on you otherwise.
Hair is just a preference. Some men like no hair, some like trimmed, some like full bushes. You don't know til you talk about it, and even if you're not his preference, I guarantee--he will be damned glad to be there, regardless of your hair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2007): You can shave it with a regular disposable razor. Just take scissors & trim it 1st (be careful) then get some shaving cream or conditioner & put it on & shave. Afterward, use a moisturizer so that you don't get irritation & dryness down there. That's what I do & it works great. And it makes me feel better when I have less hair down there & guys like it too.
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (22 September 2007):
 Yes you should shave, even if not all off, some of it
If you do shave though you probably will come up with little red blotches down there
but it's normal
trust me
You don't have to shave but if it makes you feel comfortable then do it.
Don't do it because he wants you to though.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2007): You don't need to shave it all off, just trim it so it looks neat. Shave the sides
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reader, rcn +, writes (22 September 2007):
 Don't you have parents to ask for this kind of advise?
Shaving or not shaving is the womans choice. It's due to your comfort, and how you feel, not how any guy feels.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2007): Yeah shave a little bit at least. I mean I don't really know what you like down there but you want to at least look neat. I mean you don't have to shave it all off but shave enough so that it looks clean and tidy. And you could trim a bit too. And if you are all hairy and jungly it might be tangly and bushy. I mean at least do whatever you need to do so that YOU feel COMFORTABLE. So that when he goes down on you, you feel confident and don't get embarrassed. That's all. I know that for me to feel that way I would have to shave and make it look neat and clean.
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