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writes:i'm a female i think that sth is wrong in my vagina,i mean that i have an inner lip bigger than the other(meaning libia minora).it disturbs me so much and i'm going to get married,will i find any problem in intercourse and how my husband will think of it?thak you so much for replying my question.
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reader, penta  +, writes (27 August 2007):
 Lots of women have the same thing. It's as normal as different penis sizes is in men. Please don't worry about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007): Men prefer larger inner lips. It wraps around the penis more and feels better
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reader, daglish  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 How i would willingly exchange shoes with your husband to be. Am so obssesse with big vagina lips infact its one reason i love my honey so much. And i even feel that element of imbalance makes u one of the sweetest gals any man can ever go to bed with in the world. Drop the insecurity and feel proud coz ur hubby is definately gonna love you the way u are since he already does.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (26 August 2007):
Do faces of different people look different? Of course they do, and so do vaginas...so do penises. There is nothing to worry about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): It isn't an std if she's saving herself for her husband...and an std wouldn't cause large vaginal lips...geez. Don't worry darlin'. I have that same thing with my vagina. And guys even have said that they found it hot. Just like how some women think larger testicles are hot. It is obviously a common thing, because there is even a procedure to shorten the inner vaginal lips called labiaplasty. But it isn't necessary & women only get it done because they are insecure. It won't interfere with sex, it won't cause any more pain during sex and
your husband will not mind 1 bit. If he does mention it, tell him you've had them all your life & that it is a common thing among women. If you still feel insecure, do an online search & type in "large innver vaginal lips" I'm sure you'll see it is a normal thing. Good Luck!!
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reader, Lizz +, writes (25 August 2007):
 If you are not experiencing any pain or discomfort then chances are there is nothing wrong with your vagina. Everyone's bodies are different and not all genitalia are alike. Many women have similar problems with their labia, but do not be afraid of what your hubby to be will think. If this man truly loves you, this will not affect his feelings toward you. Be sure to be open and honest with him and before sex let him know that you are self-conscious. You may be surprised at how accepting/supportive he can be. Just because your vagina looks a little different doesn't change the fact that it's a vagina. If he wants to make love with you I'm sure he will overlook such a minor detail.
Now, if your vagina hasn't always looked this way and it happened only recently you may want to get it checked out. Definitely if you are experiencing discomfort and pain. You could have some type of infection/or STD. Do not have sex with him if you think you may have contracted an STD!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (25 August 2007):
 This is normal. I think you're afraid of what your husband will think of you when you're married, and you're projecting that fear on this. But, don't worry.
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