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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now, and very much in love. We were both kind of promiscuous before we ended up together but we are very happy to be in a faithful, trustworthy relationship.The boyfriend has brought up having a threesome, many times. Usually I humor him, etc, but lately I have been considering it. It could be hot, but I'm terrified it will ruin our relationship. I feel like by letting him have sex with another girl, even if I am present and engaging in it, it could be a slippery slope. I love him and I'm afraid that it's going to change the dynamic of our relationship and ultimately the jealousy and remorse will lead to the death of our relationship. I don't know what to do. Help!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 November 2009):
Not a good idea. You won't like it during or afterwards, but he will. Your relationship probably won't work.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (10 November 2009):
 Not sure if you've had a threesome before, but one thing you might want to bear in mind is that many guys don't want to have a committed relationship with a girl who has in the past. Something to bear in mind for later. We see too many guys on this site who, having found their girlfriend has had threesomes in the past, can't cope with the feelings that causes and break up with them. Which really sucks for the girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): Threesomes almost always kill relationships. It will be different and by different I mean less. You can forget marrige
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): It is a very bad idea and you KNOW it!!! Its as simple as that!
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (10 November 2009):
Your instincts are telling you this is a bad idea- listen to your gut. It is always right. It is as simple as that.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 November 2009):
 It's pretty obvious you don't want the threesome. Don't do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): I think you should tell him exactly what you're feeling.
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