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Please give me some lunch gift ideas!

Q.   Hi, I need some quick suggestions. Me and my husband has been invited by one of my colleagues and wife for lunch tomorrow at his residence. I have no idea what I should bring with me as a gift. Specially since it is a lunch and because i don't know ...

A.   10 November 2009: I don't think wine is so great for a lunch engagement... Maybe a fruit basket.... (read in full...)

My boyfriends love of butts makes me insecure!

Q.   I have a petite butt, small and a bit flat comparing to most women. My boyfriend said he loves my butt and he can't seem to keep his hands off of it. I'm just wondering why he seems to love my butt when my butt is smaller and not as nice as most ...

A.   10 November 2009: Not all guys have the same taste in anything... including butts. You might not like yours, but there's no such thing perfect butt for everyone... just a perfect butt for someone. Maybe your boyfriend has found the perfect butt for him.... (read in full...)

Is it possible to be happy when you're all alone?

Q.   Do you think it is possible to live a meaningful happy fulfilling life when you have no partner, children etc but a great career and a close group of friends? Im asking this because due to a cheating ex I have an STD. I am an extremly sensitiv...

A.   15 June 2009: One idea that popped into my head is that there must be STD positive dating sites. I did a quick google search and found that they do exist. It might be easier if your prospective partner knew from the outset that you have an STD. It might not be ... (read in full...)

Should my husband and I swap with my sister and her husband?

Q.   hi i am 34 years old married woman and my husband is 36 years old working in multinational. we both like sex too much and we do sex daily morning and night 2-3 times. now we are thinking to have sex with other married couple and both are agree. he ...

A.   9 June 2009: I know some people engage in this sort of open relationship, althought I don't quite get it. I also have heard that problems often arise. In your situation, the problems might affect not only your marriage, but also your family relationships. ... (read in full...)

How long is long enough to expect marriage?

Q.   I've been seeing a woman for over 10 years. Due to her family issues we didn't always spend every week together and the relationship was not public to most people. I've been thinking of asking if she really will get married, not just "in a few y...

A.   8 June 2009: Thanks for the answer. I have brought up the subject several times over the years, but she is never ready. Always "maybe in a few years". I think I have made it clear that I don't like the situation, but it is hard to make an ultimatum.... (read in full...)

My fiance won't let me see his email! Is this childish?

Q.   My fiance refuses to let me see his email. He signs on under his own account on my computer. He says it is something that is "just his" and won't give me the password. We are both in our 40's. I think this is childish...or he's hiding something. The ...

A.   5 May 2009: I don't think that necessarily means anything. I don't share my email and don't ask to see my partner's. In any corporate environment, this would be normal--share with no one. It is not unreasonable to do the same with personal email. Let's... (read in full...)

I don't know what wrong I have done

Q.   Hi guys I wonder if you can help me work out this situation i'm in. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year. We don't get to see alot off each other as she works during the day and i work during the night. A few days ago i promised to pick her ...

A.   30 March 2009: I see two possibilities: One, this is something building up over time and this is the "straw that broke the camels back". Maybe you had earlier fights (you didn't say), or it's something she kept inside. The other possibility is that she's mo... (read in full...)

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