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How can I motivate him to be more pro-active in bed?

Q.   HI :) My boyfriend and I have been together for over 10 months now I’m 19 and he’s 22. He’s you're average guy he’s sweet, caring, generous and loving. However nowadays I’m starting to enjoy sex less and less with him, mainly because I feel l...

A.   25 December 2010: since he is so lazy-as you say,make him orally satisfy you,before ,you go riding him.sorrry i dont know what else,to say.marry christmas,happey new year.... (read in full...)

Was this emotional abuse by my bf?

Q.   Was I in an emotionally abusive relationship? We dated for five years but in order for him to accept me, he wanted me to loose weight i am 124lbs 5'3 and he would sometimes be like, 'oh why arent you wearing makeup?'. or like, 'I dont want to hav...

A.   25 December 2010: damn right-what your boyfriend is putting you through,is-emotional abuse!!!!i know many friends of mine-go through this crap-if he dont promise,to stop-are learn to change,hes ways-find a better boyfriend-never look back.you have your whole life,to ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant by someone else, my boyfriend doesn't know and I can't have an abortion!

Q.   Hey pipo m hopin u help me out on this problem....me and this guy have been datin 4 2yrs nw,n i met this nice guy we went out @ some club and took enuf beers...we later went 2 his home we had sex and now m pregnunt n my boyfriend doesnt knw about ...

A.   25 December 2010: i notice i forgot,one other option-sorrey-fiss-up-and tell,your boyfriend,the truth ,whos kid it is.if you can-you have so many options.merry christmas-happey new year.... (read in full...)

Please don't judge, need advice. I'm crazy for him. He has 5 kids by 3 women and his wife is pregnant. At wit's end

Q.   I need help. I've been in a relationship with this man for over a year now. He's married. In the begnning I idnt know he was married. His family lied to me he lied to me. I got pregnant and we now have I child together. She is 5 months old. He and ...

A.   25 December 2010: you have to put yourself-and your soon,to be baby first ,and foremost!!! if you plan-its not my place to say or judge,your desion-you have a choise,to bring your child,in to this world.its your body-nobody elses.i hate to say it,your boyfriend is a ... (read in full...)

I want to move away from my parents ASAP, but I know that I will get the guilt trip of my life

Q.   Dear Cupid. I am having a problem with my parents! We are a traditional Italian family, and usually Italians are pretty social and have many friends, but not my family. My mother has become very ANTI Social. She is 54 and my dad is 64. I...

A.   24 December 2010: i too stayed late in my life with my folks-mom-died of cancer-i felt guilty leaving my dad-i stayed with him ,until i was 31-mom died when i was-27.but everybody needs to get out of there own-relationships,privcy,marriage,kids,ect.i just moved close ... (read in full...)

Am I putting myself in a bad situation?

Q.   Heyyy. I've dating my boyfriend for about 10 months. I'm a virgin and he's not. He hasn't relly pushed sex on me but I know he really wants to have sex with me, so sometimes it's a little hard to stop when we're together. Anyway, for Christmas, a ...

A.   24 December 2010: your trip-can happen,are you strong enough,in your desire,not to have sex.is your boyfriend able to resisr not going all the way.if yes to those geastions,then go-if not-dont go.... (read in full...)

Is it possible to love someone but not be IN love with them?

Q.   Is it possible to love someone but not be IN love with them? As in, like I care for you enough to the point where I love you but I'm not in love with you. I don't know if that made any sense. sorry! haha...

A.   24 December 2010: you have to learn in your young life-thear is romanic-love,like when you love a husband-and there is just friend love,with no romanace involed.but you must know to keep it seperate-if you blur that-fine line-it could backfire.... (read in full...)

My husband is controlling! What is the right thing to do?

Q.   Dear Cupid, Me and my husband recently had a child and it has gotten to the point where he does not let me take the baby out, his mother is constantly telling the baby that she is her mother which is very annoying, just a few days ago while he...

A.   24 December 2010: i have a family member in your situation-except beatings where involed.her husband never changed-the third time she left-she was murdered by her husband.the controlimg person has to agree to stop controling all together.you have the right to share ... (read in full...)

Are my feelings rational? And what should we do?

Q.   Hello Before my girlfriend and I were together she had a small fling with a friend of mine. She has told me that she had no feelings for him and that the only reason she was with him was to help her get over her ex that she had recently broken u...

A.   23 December 2010: dude,i was a cheater-now am not-it dosnt matter what sex it was ,its cheating.your girlfriend cheated on you.either she stops cheating is her choice-not yours.you are the one to decide -will she quit,can i deal with it if she dont.or just leave ,the ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant by someone else, my boyfriend doesn't know and I can't have an abortion!

Q.   Hey pipo m hopin u help me out on this problem....me and this guy have been datin 4 2yrs nw,n i met this nice guy we went out @ some club and took enuf beers...we later went 2 his home we had sex and now m pregnunt n my boyfriend doesnt knw about ...

A.   23 December 2010: since abortion is not a option- you have few choices. ether tell the real dad -hes the dad,maybe he our his family will take care of the child when his born .or you can live with fact in a lie -your boyfriend is ,the dad-or only other way-maybe give ... (read in full...)

Jealous girlfriend , my fault I hit her ?

Q.   My girlfriend is bi polar and jealous. She caught me with porn and got really mad about it she wol't let me have female friend and I don't care about that because I don't want her to have male friends so we made a deal no friends of oppisite sexes. ...

A.   23 December 2010: dude,you really need help,for your temper-if she makes you,really mad-try to walk away-before you hit her.maybe try couple therapy.... (read in full...)

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