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anonymous
writes:hey everybody..my question is that is it ok for a girl thats turning 16 to go out with a guy thats about 20.. but they havent met yet( he's one of her friends friends) they really close over phone and they really like each other! though her sister (22) isnt happy for she says that all a 20 year old boy could want sex and is worried but the girl knows that he's not like that.. so you reckon its ok for them to get together. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): You are still under 16 so be very very careful. Don't meet on his terms. Always meet in a public place. Why not go to MacDonalds first. Nothing too much or too heavy. Personally i think his sister is probably right, but that is up to you. If you are not happy you don't have to go on a second date. Be careful
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reader, Supergirl  +, writes (30 March 2007):
Hey, i dont think its a good idea hunny, especaily as you have never met him... and with him being so much older you have to be carefull, maybe meet up with him (do you know he is a safe and trustworthy man, and no gonna hurt you if you meet up?) if yes maybe meet up with him, in town, go for a coffee or something for a few times get to know him in person and then see how it goes frm there..some people are different in real life.
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (29 March 2007):
 Best advice: keep the first encounter or two VERY public. DO NOT be alone with this guy. Get to know him first. He's five years older than you are, and maybe all he's looking for is a quick sexual conquest. Or maybe he really IS interested in forming a real relationship with you. But don't give him the opportunity to do the former. Keep it strictly public. If he objects to that even a little bit, RUN LIKE HELL!
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