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I caught my sister masturbating

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Question - (23 November 2010) 13 Answers - (Newest, 26 November 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I walked into my younger sisters room to get her downstairs for lunch nd i saw her in her bed nude masturbaiting with a gel bottle and i dont know if i should tell mum and dad?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010):

no dont tell ur parents as ur sister will get angry at u

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A female reader, itslikemonpoke United States +, writes (26 November 2010):

itslikemonpoke agony auntYou shouldn't tell.... That would be a HUGE violation of privacy. It isn't like she WANTED you to catch her. Just leave it be.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2010):

Um ....NO!

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A female reader, Sissy 1992 United States +, writes (25 November 2010):

Sissy 1992 agony auntHow would you feel if your sister told something privet about yourself to your parents... You would be angry with her... Just let it go you dont need to tell on her what she was doing was a part of life...

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A female reader, maddiee-maii United Kingdom +, writes (24 November 2010):

do u not masterbate? us girls are the same just dont shout it off like u boys.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (23 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntI bet she locks her door from now on..Do knock on your sister's door, you don't want to walk in on that again or her changing.

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A female reader, Adorskable  Mexico +, writes (23 November 2010):

Adorskable  agony auntWhy would you want to tell, would you like for your sister to tell on you. Your around the masturbating age, now ask yourself this question is it wrong for you to masturbate, it is right, so why do you think its wrong for your sister to do it. I have to agree with Dr.LanceMerryweather knock next time.

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A female reader, largentsgirl89 United States +, writes (23 November 2010):

largentsgirl89 agony auntMasterbation is normal, everyone does it and I highly doubt that your sister wants the entire family to know what she was doing in her bedroom.

I'm sure you do private things in your bedroom as well and don't want the rest of your family to know.

Just let it go. Don't make a big deal out of it. She didn't do anything wrong.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010):

What your sister was doing in the privacy of her own bedroom is perfectly normal. So dont worry about that. Im sure there are times when you do private things of whatever nature and wouldnt want the whole family knowing. So respect her dignity and dont tell on her. You saw her naked but its only a big deal if you make it into one. We all have bodies so just forget what you saw and dont dwell on it. And in future just knock on her door and wait for permission to enter her room. Thats the gentlemanly thing to do.

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A male reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather United Kingdom +, writes (23 November 2010):

Dr.LanceMerryweather agony auntAll of the aforementioned advice plus - BLOODY-WELL KNOCK NEXT TIME!

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A female reader, Supple  Australia +, writes (23 November 2010):

It's fine man, girls masturbate all the time as the person said it's natural for teenagers to do this even when they 12. They are experimenting with their body. Did you know that 80% of boys masturbate and about 60% of females masturbate too. Masturbation is a healthy way to give yourself sexual pleasure. Just read on other sites of masturbation about teenagers. Also imagine if your sister found out and told your parents, how would you feel? Embarrassed right so I suggest you don't tell your parents. Also it is very very humiliating to be seen naked by her brother so telling you parents will make it even worse.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (23 November 2010):

I don't think you need to say anything at all. There's nothing wrong with what she's doing. I'd just let it go and not bring it up again.

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (23 November 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntThere is no need to tell anyone, masturbation is normal and natural. Try not to bring it up. Eventually you will forget it. It isn't a big deal.

I hope that helps.

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