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writes:I met this guy in a nightclub in 2008. He fancied me, but he took my number but didnt contact me. I bumped into him while we were round town a few times after that but we just spoke to each other a bit but didnt keep in contact. Last year, he got my new number when we bumped into each other again and we text each other. He told me what he ahd been up to and said we should go on a date sometime if i fancied it ?. I said i'd like that, and he added me on facebook,but soon after that, he went travelling, and he is going to come back next week. He has been gone for eight months. We have only spoke a couple of times on facebook. i asked how he was and it was just brief conversation, so we still dont know each other very well. I want to ask him if he'd like to go out for a drink when he gets back, but i dont even know if he still fancies me, or if he would still be interested in meeting. I'm 26 and he is 23. What should i do, and if i ask him, what do you think i should say ?. I dont want to scare him off.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (5 August 2010):
 I love that word "fancy". If you guys keep bumping into each other then that tells me something right there..give it a try. Also if u guys met in 08 and he's still had a lil contact u since then that says a lot about him..Ive been busy lately, life happens you know, but i keep magically running in to u, so curiosity killed the cat and he still wants to meet up.
"Hey how was ur holiday? (let him briefly tell u, but not too much bc u wanna have convo for ur outing) Wow, u must be exhausted..well would u like to go out for a relaxing, low key drink at (whatever nice quiet pub u have in town, one preferably with good bar food) to catch up?"
Full proof convo right there..that way there's no pressure for a first date...and if all goes well then hello, first date..Gonna cross my fingers that he says yes!
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reader, CarlyJohnson +, writes (5 August 2010):
How about trying to give him a quick text? Something fun and flirty, say its maybe to welcome him home? Ask him for drinks and if he accepts then maybe theres still a chance that he likes you! If not then dont dwell on it, over time feelings can change, espceially if you havent seen someone in a while. Try not to be shy about speaking to him, if its right, its right! Good luck xx
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