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My man says I look like something that came out of the garbage!

Q.   Hi i have been seeing this guy for 17 months to be precise and we used to have sex everyday recently is has reduced to only weekends , when i asked him about it he says i dont dress up for him when he comes home and also made a comment saying not ...

A.   21 July 2011: To be honest, what are you confused about? He is disrespecting you, and expressing his lack of desire toward you. Don't let him do this to you, as if it continues it will destroy your confidence. I don't believe in dressing a certain way for a mans ... (read in full...)

Should I break up with b/f? He says he cares about others but doesn't know how to show it

Q.   Dear Cupid, I really need help to decide if I should break off with my LDR BF. We've been together for 3 months and it has been long distance 2 months ago. When I'm with him, everything is fine, except that he's quite self-centered. He tal...

A.   20 July 2011: Well you want him to understand your feelings, so trying to understand his is a good start. Like you said he told you since the accident he can't express himself... He has been honest with you about this, so it shouldn't come as a surprise to you. ... (read in full...)

What's the best way to make her think, and choose me?

Q.   I've been fooling around with my classmate for long months now. Each time we went out, we ended up in bed together (not having sex, just petting and cuddling). She's in a long term relationship with someone else. Back when I started to fancy her, I ...

A.   20 July 2011: This is totally unfair on you, she shouldn't be stringing you along like this, and getting the best of both worlds. If she doesn't want to leave him then surely she is happy in her relationship and simply wants all the attention she can get? I fee... (read in full...)

My boy friend sometimes just walks off and leaves me alone in a bar. no explanation. what do you think I should do about it?

Q.   I dont know whether to stay with my boyfriend or not. Sometimes, when he gets in a mood, and we have been out in a bar, he has left me on my own at the bar. It's happened a couple of times. The first time it happened, he left but then came back a ...

A.   4 May 2011: As a moody person myself I can sympathise with him, sometimes removing yourself from a situation is the only way to deal with your emotions. Have you let him know that this upsets you? Do you know his reasons for doing this? Communication and ... (read in full...)

Is it okay to hangout with a guy I recently met and know is interested in me, even though I have a boyfriend?

Q.   The other day at work, I met a guy (not affiliated with my place of work) who seemed very friendly and genuinely nice (and cute, too!) After a little bit of talking, he asked me out on a date, to which I declined and stated that I had a boyfriend of ...

A.   1 May 2011: There is nothing wrong with being friends, but its best to make it really clear to him thats all you can be. Your boyfriend seems to trust you, do you trust yourself? If so there isn't really a problem.... (read in full...)

Rebounds? Commitment issues?

Q.   My girlfriend was dumped by a guy bcuz the guy felt she was cheating on him with me and another guy. I was trying to steal her from him...but we only talked as friends. The other guy was trying the same thing but I beat him. she started liking me ...

A.   29 April 2011: You say that her boyfriend broke up with her because she was close to you and this other guy, and because you were tempting her, seems to me she doesn't know what she wants, after being accused of being with you she actually goes with you, then gets ... (read in full...)

I think my husband's female friend is just waiting on the sidelines for him!

Q.   My husband has a female friend that he has had for fifteen years the same amount of time that he has known me. We all used to work in the same company and my husband (he was single then) used to make a fool of himself over this woman always taking ...

A.   29 April 2011: While i'm a lot younger than you i've had a similar predicament with a 'friend' hanging out with my boyfriend and them becoming quite close its heart breaking to see him become close with another woman me becoming upset about it pushed him away. H... (read in full...)

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