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Is she hiding something from me?

Q.   For 1 im with a girl together.Everything is alright, amazing actually she never said anything bad about me or my habbits she slept over at my place, she told her parents about me and they dont have anything against it. My problem is: She studys a...

A.   9 May 2013: It doesn't seem like shes hiding something. From what you have wrote here it seems shes a sweet girl but maybe she feels pressured by you. Could this be a possibility? You haven't gotten into too much detail here but as stated she has not been in a ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is angry about something he saw on my Facebook wall, but he hasn't gotten back to me to discuss it

Q.   4 nights ago, when I got home I had a Facebook message from my 29yo boyfriend, which said (and I quote): "Just saw something on your Facebook wall that I really didn't like. We need to talk ASAP" I left him a message saying that, the day aft...

A.   9 May 2013: Don't break your head over it. For real. If he realizes he's acting like a child, he'll message you back. If not, move on, it's not worth your time. ... (read in full...)

Advice for online dating and dating sites?

Q.   What are your tips when it comes to online dating/chatting? Pros and cons of online dating? I've tried two dating sites so far. Eharmony began with a long personality questionaire. After finishing it, you're presented with your best matches ba...

A.   9 May 2013: I have been on dating sites not too long ago (say like 3 years ago) For me it didn't work. At all. That doesn't mean it can't work for others. You have some definite pros, but also cons. Personal advice, if you do want a real relationship goin... (read in full...)

Self-Esteem and Love Life.

Q.   I've been about three years without a date, and every once in a while I think to myself "Man, I'd really like to spend more time with her." There are a few reasons I don't act on those feelings not the least of which is the fact that I sincerely ...

A.   9 May 2013: Just chillax dude, be yourself and stop looking. You need to realize, life ain't a movie, so you definitely won't meet your princess just so out of the blue. Concentrate on other things and eventually someone will appear in your life. And s... (read in full...)

When is it the right time to walk away?

Q.   When is it the right time to walk away? I want to be back with my ex. I have been contacting him through a dice game, he had changed his phone number after we broke up when he went back to his ex. His ex didnt want to be with him, she just did not ...

A.   9 May 2013: The short and simple way out: leave him to his business. You are so much more worth, than he is. It's about time you focus on your own issues, if there are any. Leave him in peace and move on.... (read in full...)

Can guys with commitment issues ever change?

Q.   can guys with commitment issues ever change? my ex is 23 and we have been on and off for 16 months. seems every time things begin to get pretty serious he freaks out and runs off! the last time we broke up was in january, we broke up because he said ...

A.   9 May 2013: To put it bluntly, the both of you need to chill for a while. He need time, you need time, that's the way things go. If it's meant to be than yeah by all means it will be, but as of now the future doesn't look very bright. Sorry... (read in full...)

I want to tell him that he makes me depressed but I like him but I'm afraid!

Q.   Lately, the guy I like has been avoiding me lately. I'm also kind of sure he does like me back (maybe, I'm not completely sure). When we pass by each other in the hallway, we would always say hello and have a quick chat. Also, normally, we would ...

A.   9 May 2013: Hmmmm honey, sorry to break to you, but behaving the way you did, does not help you very much. At all actually. ... (read in full...)

Does my willingness to end the relationship mean it's time for it to end?

Q.   We've been together for 1.5 years. There's been good times and bad. I've verbally attacked him and physically attacked him twice. I can't figure out why, but he must love me. I really do love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him, but ...

A.   9 May 2013: Short and to the point, yes. Your willingness is nothing more than ultimate proof that you indeed need to break if off, once and for all.... (read in full...)

I kissed her too soon, and she still has feelings for her ex

Q.   hello, im soooo confused right now. ive known this girl for years, and ive worked with her the past 8months or so and i really devloped a liking for her, so i waited for her to come out of her current relationship and i made my move slow which we ...

A.   9 May 2013: I do agree with the other agony aunt. Stop being so confused and let her breath for a while, there is not pressure what so ever. You have to be realistic and confront her BUT slow! Go slow on her, otherwise, it's all in vain. ... (read in full...)

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