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writes:4 nights ago, when I got home I had a Facebook message from my 29yo boyfriend, which said (and I quote):"Just saw something on your Facebook wall that I really didn't like. We need to talk ASAP"I left him a message saying that, the day after, I'd be home ALL day and night, so he could stop by. I also said that he could call me instead, to arrange something.He saw that message (the whole "seen at" warning on the Facebook chat), but never showed up, nor answered.Yesterday I left another message saying I'd be all day at a coffee shop, and asked if he could stop by. He was online today, but didn't even read my message.I am both terrified and confused! So he tells me HE wants to talk, but then.. disappears?I'm here left wondering extremely scared, as I don't even know what he saw that got him so upset.His phone is broken, so I can only talk to him by facebook.We've been dating for 10 months, and the last fight was over 6 months ago! And even then (and it was pretty bad!) we talked the very next day, and even though we were upset for a few days, we always talked.I'm not sure if I should keep telling him where I'll spend the day..Because if I keep bugging him I might pressure him too much, if I stop sending messages he might think I forgot about the whole think..Why is he acting like this, and what should I do?
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reader, YourCoach +, writes (9 May 2013):
Don't break your head over it. For real. If he realizes he's acting like a child, he'll message you back. If not, move on, it's not worth your time.
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reader, CuriousGirl616 +, writes (4 May 2013):
 Hes punishing you through the silent treatment. Send him one last message saying "when you are ready to talk contact me and so can discuss what you saw" that's it then don't write him anymore. He knows you care he just wants to drive you crazy and hes being immature. Dont worry he will contact you after he sees you've stopped writing him. Just be calm and wait.
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reader, angelloveforever +, writes (4 May 2013):
 look if he loves you then he will message you, let him think hes losing you, he will come running back to u. dont message him, wat for him to message you
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