Should my ex-boyfriend and I remain friends?
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up just recently. It is not due to a character mismatch or betrayal or anything. It is because of differences in religion which is why we are finding it very hard to let go. Should we remain as friends or should I totally ...
A. 21 May 2012: Give yourself some time and then reconnect as a friend. I am friends (not super close but friendly and civil) with two of my exes. We'll talk every now and then but don't hang out. With one we're actually working on a business venture together. It ... (read in full...)
Brown discharge between periods... Worried!!
Q. I'm 19, and sexually active. I'm not on any birth control, and my periods are generally regular. It's been 2 weeks since the end of my last period, and my next isn't due for another 2 weeks. I would usually get some White discharge between periods, ...
A. 22 January 2011: If you're worried you're pregnant, the likelihood is low since you used protection. It may be related to losing your virginity--some women bleed a little when the hymen is broken during their first sexual intercourse.
Either way, you need to ... (read in full...)
How do I stop being so accomodating to guys? I want a long term meaningful relationship
Q. I have always made bad choices in guys, form high school until now...I've had long term relationships but never meaningful one I was always quick to make them happy doing everything I thought they wanted me to do (pushover). Most of the time I had se...
A. 22 January 2011: I suggest that you start by first stopping all dating immediately. You should go on a complete man fast. No dating at all. Second, you should seek out counseling from a licensed psychologist. You will never be in a "meaningful" "long term" "rel... (read in full...)
Last year I slept with a co-worker. Now she will not let me forget it. How do I handle the problems she's causing me?
Q. In November, I slept with a co-worker. I'm married and I know I screwed up. Right after it happened, I felt guilty and told her that it would never happen again.Well, my wife works with us, and the co-worker has been dropping hints left and righ...
A. 22 January 2011: I hate to tell you this, but you have only two options in this situation: 1. Tell your wife what happened 2. Somehow convince your wife to quit or find another job #2 is probably not financially feasible and will leave her with a lot o... (read in full...)
We're both engaged. Should I confess my lesbian crush to my friend?
Q. I'm a 30 year old woman who is engaged to be married to a wonderful man. Our relationship is strong and caring and I am very happy with him. The problem is that I recently realized that I (still) have a very strong crush on a female roommate from ...
A. 21 January 2011: UPDATE: so I took Fabulosa's advice and decided to test the waters via text msg. I texted my friend and told her how much I enjoyed her visit and that I hope her fiance knows how lucky he is to have such a smart and hot woman. She responded by ... (read in full...)
I'm female and get turned on by lesbian porn???
Q. im not a lesbian or bi. i dont find women sexually or mentally attractive at all. im completely 100% straight. but i get turned on and have orgasms to lesbian porn. what does that mean? please help !!...
A. 3 January 2011: First off, stop trying to label yourself as straight, bi, or lesbian. These are just made up categories by society. It's perfectly normal to become aroused when viewing people engaged in sexual acts, whether they are two women, a man and a woman, or ... (read in full...)
We're both engaged. Should I confess my lesbian crush to my friend?
Q. I'm a 30 year old woman who is engaged to be married to a wonderful man. Our relationship is strong and caring and I am very happy with him. The problem is that I recently realized that I (still) have a very strong crush on a female roommate from ...
A. 3 January 2011: Thanks to everyone for your advice. I think I will approach her about it and tell my fiance as well. How do you suggest that I approach her about this? Text message, phone conversation, email? What should I say? The next time I will probably see her ... (read in full...)
I was told by my GF :"Girls don't like it when guys last long, they get sore and it hurts down there". Really???
Q. Hi, Happy New Year by the way! So, when I have sex with my girlfriend, first I pleasure her for about 7 minutes until she finishes, then we have sex and I last for about 1 minute on a good night. Now, once I kept "doing it" for a while after I wa...
A. 2 January 2011: Don't listen to these people. I'm like your girlfriend. It really, really hurts if my fiance goes a long time. I get really irritated down there and am more likely to get a yeast infection or a urinary tract infection, which just starts a really bad ... (read in full...)
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