Should I give him oral even if I'm scared?
Q. My boyfriend likes me to do oral but I'm scared to. All his ex girlfriends gave him oral. He expects me to give him oral to. I tried it once but stopped. We really love each other and I am scared that if I do not do it he will leave me or cheat on ...
A. 24 September 2009: Listen -- everyone below me here has said the "right" thing to do. I will tell you the truth, which is as follows: Most guys your age and older will expect oral. That's just the way it is. He will also probably not truly understand any r... (read in full...)
How can we compromise on our introvert/extrovert personality traits?
Q. Hi there, My boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship and have been together five months. I am 25 and was in a long-term relationship for three years before. There is a big problem - he is not interested in integrating with my friends a...
A. 24 September 2009: Hey again, I would just like to add that I do feel that he has the obligation to at least meet your family and be civil to them. This is just a part of being a boyfriend. All I meant with my previous post is that it is unfair to expect him ... (read in full...)
How can we compromise on our introvert/extrovert personality traits?
Q. Hi there, My boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship and have been together five months. I am 25 and was in a long-term relationship for three years before. There is a big problem - he is not interested in integrating with my friends a...
A. 22 September 2009: Hi there, I clicked on your question because my girlfriend and I are in the same boat -- she is social, likes spending time with friends/having a social network, I like staying home, being by myself or just with her and have literally no fri... (read in full...)
Guys - I need hints on talking dirty.
Q. this is for the males out there..well girls can answer too...My hubby wants me to talk dirty to him while we having sex..but im not sure what to say...i mean i know he wants to hear that im loving it and he's going a great job and feels good..but i ...
A. 21 September 2009: Come up with a sexually explicit fantasy (or one you already have) and tell it to him in detail using the crudest language you can manage (seriously, there is no limit/point where he will be offended when he is inside of you).
and/or
Come up... (read in full...)
Lost in an apparent man's world
Q. So right now I am so upset and sick to my stomach. I feel hopeless.I think I should just be alone for the rest of my life. I know people think i must be crazy , but my boyfriend and I of 4 years were already fighting and I asked him why he deleted ...
A. 21 September 2009: Ok, my appologies if this is a bit more of a rant then I intend...
First...ladies...would you like to know if your man watches/looks at porn? Then simply answer the following questions -- does he have acess to the internet? Is he ever alone? ... (read in full...)
My wife is still meeting up with her ex!
Q. Hi, I am desperate for other peoples opinions on his matter. I will try to report the facts as they are rather than as I see them, but I'm sure I will add some bias. 1. My wife met an Indonesian waiter on a cruise ship when she was ...
A. 14 May 2009: I think the previous two answers are adequate, but just to help you build a consensus I want to say that you are totally justified in being upset and not overreacting in the slightest.
Bonne chance.... (read in full...)
My ex FWB and future husband wanted my consent to have sex with a friend, I disagreed, what now?
Q. I am a female of 32 years old. I have a boyfriend who is 30. We have had a no strings attached relationship for about 2 years, where he knew about my boyfriend then and i knew of almost all his escapades with women. He went for postgraduate ...
A. 14 May 2009: This is why these types of relationships almost always lead to problems and stress.
In my opinion your relationship must be either totally open (it takes two VERY secure people to do this successfully) or exclusive and trusting.
The ide... (read in full...)
I don't like him seeing his ex
Q. Hi, this is bothering me and I would like some advice please. This is a silly problem but if anyone could give some help please - Ive heard the 'just get over it' and it doesnt work! My boyf is great and we have a good relationship. He has had a few ...
A. 11 May 2009: Hi there, First, I just want to say that you're completely justified in being upset -- spending time with an ex is a touchy proposition at best and it sounds like your boyfriend isn't treating the situation with the tact it calls for. So...lik... (read in full...)
How can I either stop myself from cumming so soon or find a way to make my boyfriend cum faster???
Q. I am very sensitive when it comes to having sex and find that I cum very easily... my boyfriend is the opposite and takes time to come... I get very frustrated and feel as if I'm not doing enough to please my boyfriend... How can I either stop ...
A. 16 April 2009: If you are female then why should it matter if you cum quickly?
For most men this would be a positive thing. It makes us feel potent and sexually powerful to be able to make our partner cum (repeatedly especially).
So yeah...enjoy it.... (read in full...)
Appropriate behavior to retain regular contact with ex?
Q. Hello all. With this question I am just trying to get a sense of what most people find to be appropriate behavior in a relationship re: communication with an ex. With all of my previous girlfriends there was just a kind of unspoken rule tha...
A. 16 April 2009: Thank you so much for your well-thought-out and considerate response.
I will find a way to bring up the issue and ask how she would feel if I hung out with recent exes, but I'm fairly sure she'll say it wouldn't bother her, just based on her prev... (read in full...)
I want to be worthy of life, how do I do that?
Q. i dont know what to ask per se. im 25, i have no job, and no friends. my boyfriend barely notices me when he is around. what friends i do have are either wrapped up in their boyfriends, they have parents who pay their way, so they can afford to go ...
A. 16 April 2009: Hi...I'm sorry to hear how unhappy you are...I'm 25 and American as well and know that this period of life is extremely difficult. You have no stability, you are expected to act like an adult but the adults and others that you work with treat you ... (read in full...)
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