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The girl I love has slept around and partied a lot in the past

Q.   you guys! i have really loved you all. i know this is three years later but what most of you are talking about is my story and what i am going through now. i love this girl and she tells me that she loves me. i am a virgin who has always wanted to ...

A.   15 August 2011: If she is genuine and true to you, you've hit the jackpot, bro. People grow up differently. It's OK.... (read in full...)

How do I bring up that I dated his friend 3 years ago?

Q.   Three years ago I went on a few dates with a guy we'll call Andy. I was never really into him, although things went a little too far one night, but I didn't want them to so I left. We saw each other one more time after this and talked briefly, but ...

A.   15 August 2011: Any way it's done, it's better coming from you than Andy. Inevitably, it will come out.... (read in full...)

Humiliated betrayed and heartbroken by my ex fiance!

Q.   I've been horrribly humilated, betrayed, and heartbroken by my ex fiance of over 2 years . Every time we had an argument, he would give me the cold shoulder until I would cave in a week later and ask him to discuss the problem. I have been married ...

A.   5 August 2011: It always hurts when it ends. It really sounds like you're better off, though.... (read in full...)

I feel disgusting and like no one will ever respect me because I've not only had sex, but with more than one person!

Q.   I have slept with two guys in my life. Most of my friends haven't even been with one. It's not like I barely knew either guy, I knew both very well and genuinely cared for them. The problem is, being only sixteen, I feel cheap. I wish I could go...

A.   2 August 2011: Soon you'll have a new boyfriend, which is great. He may put some pressure on you to have sex with him because you did it with your other boyfriends and fair is fair, right? Wrong. Be true to yourself and give yourself a chance to grow up. Time ... (read in full...)

Is it inappropriate for my boyfriend to have dinner alone with his new female friend?

Q.   Hi everyone, Here's the situation. My boyfriend and I are very much in love. We both have close friends of the opposite sex and that never bothered us. However, just earlier this week, he had dinner with a new female friend. Am I crazy to think i...

A.   1 August 2011: She's stealing your man, or at least trying to.... (read in full...)

I don't like sex, people think thats a bad thing

Q.   Hello, I am an 18 year old female and I dont like the thought of sex, at all. I think its repulsive and gross. I am still a virgin and perfectly okay with it. I dont see how its can be enjoyable or pleasurable for anyone. I have not been ...

A.   26 July 2011: Just be true to yourself. Maybe you'll meet someone someday who you'll find irresistible. Just deal with it honestly, and please don't close your mind to the possibility. 18 is young. You've got a lot of living to do with that life.... (read in full...)

Make a move or move on?

Q.   So, I have this friend, which is a guy, and we have been talking on and off for about 3 years now. We both go to different colleges which are states away, but whenever he comes back for any break, we spend a few days together. Whenever we do spend ...

A.   8 July 2011: Football players in college who are good enough to consider playing in the NFL are magnets for girls. If he is truly a great guy and can commit to you, go for it. There are guys out there like him. If he can devote himself to you and withstand the ... (read in full...)

My Wife cheated two months into our marriage, will we ever be happy again??

Q.   Recently I discovered that my wife of nearly ten years had an affair with a co-worker. As if this wasn't painful enough for me to deal with, I also learn't that this happened only two months into or marriage! Now I find myself constantly quest...

A.   8 July 2011: How did you discover this? Was she honest when confronted? You seem like a good man and I feel bad for you. I honestly don't know what I would do in your situation. It would be hard to walk away because when a man divorces his wife, he divorces ... (read in full...)

I love her but I keep catching her in lies, and she insists she's telling the truth even when lying right to my face!

Q.   Sorry for the length of this one. Im in love with a girl I have been friends for 5yrs and lovers for 5 months. We were co-workers/friends about 5yrs ago, parted ways, kept in tough and now in love and happy for the most part. Only problem are the ...

A.   8 July 2011: One question: Do you want to spend your life with a liar?... (read in full...)

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