I'm afraid I'm moving too slowly for my girlfriend!
Q. Hey, I have a problem with being too shy with girls (it's the reason my last girlfriend dumped me). I can never work up the nerve to kiss the girl no matter how much i dig her or she digs me. I'm not saying I can't kiss them or move to the sequenti...
A. 17 December 2005: Your girlfreind didn't dump you because you are too shy, she dumped you because you weren't right for her. Their is no pressure to rush into anything you are not ready for. It makes you to special to not just have one thing on you mind. You have ... (read in full...)
I smasturbating bad for you?
Q. Somebody please tell me the truth, is masturbating good, or bad for you? Is it healthy? If you do it to often do you waste your cum? Does your penis become skew? I'm hearing so many different stories, i'm lost. Thanks...
A. 27 November 2005: Loosing your sperm would be like loosing your saliva because you eat too much!!! It is perfectly natural to masturbate, if anything if improves your sex life!!... (read in full...)
Why doesn't she like to do 'relationship' things with me?
Q. Hello, I'll keep this as short as possible. I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 16, we've been together about 7 months and things got rocky mid way but have settled. We argue trivially, but get over things quickly. Recently I had finally got her to admit ...
A. 27 November 2005: It's not love sweetheart, not yet, it is too early on for you to fall in love in a relationship! But anyway just try laying off her for a bit and if she really wants you then she will get worried that she is loosing you and start paying you more ... (read in full...)
The boy I like has a baby and a relationship with someone else, but I think he wants me too!
Q. I have liked this boy since 10th grade and now were're in 12th. He has a baby by another girl, but their relationship is off and on. In reality, I know they are going to be together cause of the baby. Now my mind is telling me to let go, but my ...
A. 19 October 2005: If he breaks up with his girlfreind then go for it, but never settle for 2nd best because that is all you will be if you date him while he is still with his girlfreind, if he likes you that much then he will break it of with his current partner, and ... (read in full...)
My fiance is gorgeous and I love him; I just don't feel sexual around him.
Q. I have been with my fiance for a year. We live together and plan to marry next year. I just dont feel sexual with him. He is gorgeous and I love him dearly but I don't get turned on by him. He is getting frustrated and says it's OK but it's driving ...
A. 27 September 2005: If this is making you and your partner unhappy you should perhaps consider a session of hypnotherepy or even seek help from a relationship/sex counseller, but first try a sex game i.e a board game that way it is bound to be fun!... (read in full...)
A Catch-22: Inexperience with women makes me hesitant to try dating!
Q. Hello basically I'm a 22 year old male who has never had a girlfriend or any kind of relationship. This is really affecting my life and my confidence. I am good looking but I lack self esteem I am also very nervous because of my sexual inexperience. ...
A. 23 September 2005: Oh my gosh boy!! I can't believe you see this as a problem!!! dya know how many girls would love a virgin, you obviously havn't met the write person thats why you are inexperienced! I think that is the most special thing is to be explored sexually ... (read in full...)
The only time I feel comfortable being sexual with my husband is in the dark!
Q. Please help, I am still embarrassed to be naked in front of my husband, who I have been married to for 12 years and we have three children. I feel that when it comes to having sex or anything sexual that I am embarrassed. When I am naked I feel ...
A. 23 September 2005: The only way to overcome your embarresment is to take the shame, and practice! try lying on your front, that way he can't see that you feel embarassed through your facial expressions, If you cant bear that then take one step at a time and use a ... (read in full...)
Does he think he's betraying his late wife, or is his behaviour normal?
Q. I have been dating a man for two months. He lives alone and have one grown stepson. His wife died almost three years ago, still he is stuck in a shell. He has not moved on. I finally got him to give her clothes away after the Katrina struck. ...
A. 22 September 2005: Just go out on fun dates and concentrate on enjoying yourself. You might be just what he needs to move on in his life. I know it may sound a bit blunt but there really is no point in feeling threatened by his wife, is there? If you like him, then go ... (read in full...)
He has no excuse for sleeping with someone else! Should I forgive and forget to keep what we had?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend 7 months now and we love each other so much. He even said he wanted to marry me, and I felt the same. But he told me that he slept with another woman last week and he has no excuse for doing it. He doesn't know why he ...
A. 22 September 2005: The man is a player; leave him. I know it's a cliche but a leopard never changes its spots. If he really wanted to marry you so soon after 7 months then he should feel seriously enough about cheating on you. Don't let him fool you darling. The ... (read in full...)
He's with someone, but she treats him horribly, and I think he'd like to be with me...
Q. I really fancy this guy but he is with someone else. I know they are not happy because I hang around with the same group of friends as them. They always argue and she is horrible to him. He can't do anything right. I know he likes me too because ...
A. 22 September 2005: You not breaking a couple up if you are developing a caring friendship. If he likes you, he likes you. Let him know you want him but subtly. Ask him out for a drink, just you two. Take it from there; if he wants to be with you, then he will!... (read in full...)
My new girlfriend and I have tried everything, but we just can't get her off!
Q. With every single ex-girlfriend I've had the sex has been explosive to say the least...absolutely fantastic. My newest and hopefully last girlfriend, who I love so so so much and me don't seem to have the same spark in the bedroom, even though I...
A. 20 September 2005: Rub her clitrous until she moans, It may take a while but you will get there in the end, If your not sure where it is then ask her, It will turn her on even more if she shows you what she wants.... (read in full...)
I think I'm dateable. My friends think so too. But I can't seem to find men who are interested...
Q. I'm 26 years old and really very lonely. I would love to have some new friends, and even more so, a relationship. The problem is, I have such a difficult time seeking and finding these things. In 2 years, I've had one short-lived relationship with a ...
A. 20 September 2005: First of all exercise is a great way to combat stress and increase your confidence so join a gym. Go to places that interest you, so You are sure to find a man with the same interest, then work on building a freindship and enjoy getting to know ... (read in full...)
I fancy my teacher and I don't know if I should tell him...
Q. Hi everyone, I wondered if anyone can help me. I am 16 and I am really friendly with a 32 year old male teacher at my school. He is like a best friend to me he has helped me through some really tough times in my life. I tell him everything, but I ...
A. 19 September 2005: No you shouldn't it will lead to nothing but embarrasment and upset, It is his job to be caring and listen to your problems leave it at that!!... (read in full...)
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