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writes: With every single ex-girlfriend I've had the sex has been explosive to say the least...absolutely fantastic. My newest and hopefully last girlfriend, who I love so so so much and me don't seem to have the same spark in the bedroom, even though I love her miles more than any of my previous partners and she is a lot better looking.I'm only 20 and she 19 and we are mad about each other. I just can't seem to make her cum and I'm losing my confidence. I feel like a failure. Without blowin my own horn, other partners I had before this relationship said I was by miles the best they had ever slept with, but I just can't seem to get it right with my girlfriend. She says she enjoys sex and it feels really good until it gets to an annoying stage where she needs that little somethin extra to spark it all off. And believe me, that little something extra is hard to find. I've tried everythinf. Foreplay, nibbling, sucking, toys, oils... Please help.. x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2006): females under 25 sometimes have a hard time with this. Others have never been in a place to learn how to feel the needed feelings. play around and try new things. Try a video that explains to females the joy of sex. Look at yourself, each female has her own style you have to find that style. are you large and need to be more gentle, or small and need to try differnt positions. let your heart lead you two. it can happen if you two get in tune with each other.mind over matter, good luck.
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reader, wicky +, writes (20 September 2005):
Rub her clitrous until she moans, It may take a while but you will get there in the end, If your not sure where it is then ask her, It will turn her on even more if she shows you what she wants.
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