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writes: Hello, I'll keep this as short as possible. I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 16, we've been together about 7 months and things got rocky mid way but have settled. We argue trivially, but get over things quickly. Recently I had finally got her to admit she was mistreating me and taking advantage of my generosity because I love her and I'd forgive her for things she'd do that hurt me. The things that im concerned about, is that she has trouble complimenting me and saying she loves me back, she also refuses to go out to eat with me, or take pictures with me, and especially hates talking on the phone with me. I'm so confused because I'm so nice and understanding, and I've never try to hurt her. She says she hates those things and I respected that, but now im questioning if theres something else behind it. Am I doing something wrong? Is she hiding something? She loves me too she says, once she said shes still getting comfortable with me? I'm just looking for answers, thanks...I love this girl very much Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2006): (27 November 2005):It's not love sweetheart, not yet, it is too early on for you to fall er..what are u talking about.love comes at any point in life.its only the outside world that tells u that ur not ment to fall in love at a young age coz that means that ur more than likely to have sex at an early age.And with that comes the fact u may end up having kids at a young age(teenager have been having kids for thousands of years at around that part of their lifes).i must add that having kids so young DOES(no no really) mess ur life around badly affecting not only u but the kid as well. when young ur forever finding out life is so so so different than what u thought or what u where told.with that everything's new, fun and worth a try. dude life is 1 messed up place and even at 29 i still am finding out life isnt what i thought it was going to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2005): i think you need to look at yourself with some of these issues. do you really need someone telling you how great you are and how much they love you. you should already know how great you are. how can you expect someone to show you respect when your acting so insecure. you need to do your own thing with your friends and have a life away from your girlfriend. afterall, your only 19. do you really want all the pressures of life on your shoulders at that age. go out and have fun and i can assure you that sooner or later she'll come running.
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reader, wicky +, writes (27 November 2005):
It's not love sweetheart, not yet, it is too early on for you to fall in love in a relationship! But anyway just try laying off her for a bit and if she really wants you then she will get worried that she is loosing you and start paying you more attention. You will only find out if she really is as fond as you as you think if she does this, just because she doesn't tell you how she feels doesn't mean she don't like you. Just lay off her a bit, you are probably doing her head in, sorry to be so harsh but it's true!
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