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writes: I'm 26 years old and really very lonely. I would love to have some new friends, and even more so, a relationship. The problem is, I have such a difficult time seeking and finding these things. In 2 years, I've had one short-lived relationship with a very shallow man who ultimately couldn't love me for myself. Not to mention, most of the men that are actually interested in me aren't even close to being on the same "wavelength" as I am.I've had serious relationships before and been in love once (although it's been several years). I've even tried personals sites. But, it would seem now that I'm not worth the effort to most men anymore. I can't help but wonder if it's because I'm a very voluptuous girl. Or maybe because I'm successful at such a young age (career-wise).The few friends that I have tell me that I'm kind, loving, sweet, cute, intelligent, outgoing and creative; all the right ingredients for a great girl. But the fact remains that I just don't seem to interest the people that I'm attracted to. As a result, I spend most of my free time going to the movies on my own, or staying in with a book. It makes me feel very sad -- and frustrated because I feel that at my age I shouldn't be having these types of problems.Any suggestions on how I can improve my situation? Reply to this Question
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reader, wicky +, writes (20 September 2005):
First of all exercise is a great way to combat stress and increase your confidence so join a gym. Go to places that interest you, so You are sure to find a man with the same interest, then work on building a freindship and enjoy getting to know one-another, If you are constantly thinking about when you are going to be in a relationship you will subconsciously give the wrong signals to a man and scare them off.
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