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Need help Advice Pls: How to break up and leave an Aries BF?

Q.   First, I am still in love with my aries Boyfriend. He's 36 and I am 28. We have dated for 1.6 years striaght but on and off for 2years. But we fight so much and pick fights over everything, and this is NOT new. We have broken up a few times in the ...

A.   15 August 2011: I've been on the other side of the fence. I've been the guy who does what you do and would get the sme shit from her. One of the things I have learned to do it stop loving with my heart. Love with your head. If they pass the test of being loved by ... (read in full...)

I'm concerned about my boyfriend's feelings for his female friend and her constant presence in his life..

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8mo now and I'm having some worries about his life-long female friend. At first I didn't worry about her so much, but I have been picking up some signals that he may have some lingering feelings for her ...

A.   13 August 2011: When you are dating some one you should not have any feelinges beyond friendship with any one. I cannot believe he would say that but at least he is honest. In my opinion its not worth it. If he has already admitted that he has feelings for her then ... (read in full...)

Why can’t I just think YES - for better or worse – if the man I love starts talking about marriage?

Q.   My boyfriend is divorced with one child. When I met him I didn’t want to date him (he approached me first) because I prefer men who have not been married before, as I have not been married before. I had never dated a divorced guy before him so the ...

A.   12 August 2011: You are not being selfish. You are being realistic. This is a man that wants you to spend the rest of your life with him. His issues with his ex and the baggage surrounding that will be lugged behind you like a ball and chain for ever. Lets look at ... (read in full...)

Left my ex and got with a new guy, but now I miss my ex and have ended it with the new guy! What should I do now?

Q.   So basically about 5 months ago I came out of a 2 and a 1/2 year relationship with someone called Adam, our relationship was one of those where then it is good, it is really good and when it is bad it is really bad. We had, had our ups and downs to ...

A.   29 July 2011: Ok. I'll be the realistic one here. You ended it with your ex. You had your rebound with the "new someone". Now the fun of the new guy has been lost. So you ended that. Now you are thinking I wish I had what I had before. Don't!!! Been there done ... (read in full...)

What makes me so incapable of attracting a girl?

Q.   I'm 25 and have never in my life had a girlfriend or even anything close. I'm not a virgin but might as well be. I've had sex a total of one time several years ago leaving me with almost no sexual experience and zero relationship experience in my ...

A.   5 May 2011: Dude stop being the friendly guy. Women want intruige and mystery. Women want confidence and strength. Be a man of confidence and strength. Don't listen to their problems. They are their problems. Don't be available all the time. Don't try so hard. ... (read in full...)

She didnt respond when I proposed to her, how can I tell her that I love her?

Q.   i met a girl in my school and i fell in love with her and i proposed her and she didn't gave response but i still love her but she doesn't. how can i tell her that i am in love with her...

A.   24 March 2011: Bro, you proposed to her. There is nothing more that you can do to tell you you love her. That is the be all end all right there. Marriage is for ever. She knows. My thoughts would be do not contact her in any way shape or form. Give her time to ... (read in full...)

Why is my ex-girlfriend blocking me on msn and Facebook?

Q.   i need to know why my ex is not talking to me for some reason. because last month we had an argument but then i aplogised and she forgave me and said she would give me one more chance. once we had our argument she deleted me from msn but didnt block ...

A.   17 November 2009: Brother she is your ex girlfriend. If it has been a recent break up she will need time to get things right in her head for a while. Ex's dont go to being friends in a heart beat. Give her time. Yes it can be annoying because she is sending you ... (read in full...)

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