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After a lifetime of arguments, I just don't want my sister in my life any more. Am I being unfair?

Q.   I just had a terrible fight with words with my sister who is a year younger than me. It was over something that I didn't deal with because I kept making excuses for her or I couldn't confront her as there was always other people around. My sister ...

A.   6 January 2006: Yes there is something you can do. call her over make her sit down and if you have to tie her ass to the chair and tape her mouth shut if thats what it takes to get a word in, then do it. As far as her husband goes he's lucky he's not part of my ... (read in full...)

It's illogical, but I stress myself out worrying about my girlfriend cheating on me with her ex-husband!

Q.   Ok .. I dont know where to begin. *sigh* Thanks for advance in reading this. (5 years ago) I'm 25 , male .. been in 2 serious relationships in my life. I was cheated on the first time , walked in and caught her with my best friend. Never sp...

A.   6 January 2006: ok as a woman let me tell you its a pain in the ass when there is nothing you can do to scum like that. i understand that completely. do you love her? then f*** him just make sure you let him know that he is now stepping on very dangerous grounds ... (read in full...)

He verbally abuses me but wants to marry me. But I'm not sure I love him! Help!

Q.   Hi,i have been with my bf for about 8 months and we were really serious and he's all introduced to the family and said to my momma he wants to marry me and he loves me but i have a prob. I dont know if i just love him or if i am in love with him. ...

A.   6 January 2006: baby girl verbal mental or physical its still abuse dont stay with him you deserve better than that. dont ever let anyone treat you like anything less than royalty because a real man will do just that. an introduction to the family is just that. and ... (read in full...)

I can't sleep, eat or think straight since he has abandoned me. How do I get over this guy? Help!

Q.   Hey I don't know what to do, I'm becoming depressed and cry myself to sleep every night. I have been doing for the past 7 months now. Three years ago I met a man whom I truly fell for, he never felt the same, and 7 months ago, he finally started ...

A.   6 January 2006: hun its time to kick off those baggy pants and put some party clothes on. grab some of your gal pals and take your behind to the club and treat yourself to a good time. trust there are plenty off fine MEN out there and you need to go get one. enjoy ... (read in full...)

I've been sleuthing through my boyfriend's phone... and I think he's cheating!

Q.   I am in a relationship with someone for almost a year. He never really did anything to make me believe he has cheated on me although i can act paranoid about it and believe he is.I have gotten nosy and looked through his cell to see who he is ...

A.   6 January 2006: hun i think you should talk to her. adk her whats going on. and tell her you're not comfortable with her talking to him. and let her know where you stand she might not even know that it bothers you... (read in full...)

Help us! My girlfriend is too small and I'm too big to have enjoyable sex!

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 years. and had sex about 5 or 6 times. The problem is that im big and she is small. What can we do, so that we can both enjoy sex, and not end up hurting her every time we have intercourse?...

A.   6 January 2006: ok here we go.... have you tried ky jelly?. that might help her. also has she ever tried being on top?. tell her if she wants to try that she can control the amount of pressure that is being put on her. enjoyable sex isnt just in the act. try oral... (read in full...)

Brushing her off was a mistake. I see that now, but is it too late to get her back?

Q.   Ok well I've been dating this girl for about 5 months now. She was 15 and i was 18. She always talked to me through text messages. I was a complete jerk and was never as nice to her as she was to me, but she still loved me for it. Near December...

A.   6 January 2006: i agree with what they all are saying ... (read in full...)

Wewant to make a go of it but what about my family??

Q.   right the problem :- my long term partner and the father of my child split ten moths ago we both have said and done hurtful things to each other whilst apart. i began a new relationship with a childhood sweetheart and thought it was going to be ...

A.   6 January 2006: family is very important. and although your family is trying to do what they think is best for you, you need to make this decission on your own. the only thing i can say is do what you think is right in your heart it may lead you the wrong way at ... (read in full...)

I'm not allowed to see him but will he wait for me?

Q.   Dear Cupid, My parents have just stopped me from going out with my boyfriend because of a family feud and i have been going out with him for 2 years. i am 16 and he is 21 and i am scared that he is not going to wait until im 18 so that we could go...

A.   6 January 2006: hun think about you've been with this guy for 2 years. do you love him? then to hell with what the fight is about tell your parents that this is your life they cant tell you who to love and ask them if there parents would have stopped them from ... (read in full...)

Should I have sex with my underage girlfriend? She says she's ready, but I'm not sure about the consequences...

Q.   I am 20, my girlfriend is 15. She's said she's ready for sex with me, but I'm feeling like I'm doing something very wrong. I feel a lot for her and we're really happy together, but, I just don't know where I would stand legally if I have sex with ...

A.   6 January 2006: hun if you love her and she loves you there is nothing better than making love to the person you love...BUT... she is 15 and you are 20 to me age is nothing but a number. but remember waiting a few more months can make a big difference. a 15year old ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and I had sex 2 weeks ago. Could I be pregnant?

Q.   I'm 15 and I had sex with my boyfriend almost 2 week ago and I've been geting signs of pregnancy, like tiredness, constantly going to the bathroom, eating a lot, getting headaches, and feeling sick. I'm not getting my hopes up or whatever, but I'm ...

A.   6 January 2006: sweety you are way too young to be having to worry about this stuff. But i understand. although i wasnt 15 when i found out i was pregnant. (i was 19 and had a miscarrage 2 weeks after i found out i was) the 1st thing you should do is go to a drug ... (read in full...)

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