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Not for me... for my sister! I'm worried about her.

Q.   Hello, I know this is nothing to do with relationships, it's about health, well, my sister's health. She started her period when she was about 14/15, she's now 17. Since then, she has had VERY irregular periods and rarely ever comes on. She...

A.   22 April 2009: I'm sure your sister is fine. Periods can take a long time to regulate. But if you're really worried go see a doctor again. You can ask for a check up, a physical and blood work. Tell them your concerns and I'm sure they will either find out what's ... (read in full...)

2 years of an abusive relationship

Q.   I am a 19 year old girl who feels like I'm trapped in a helpless marriage. On my 17th birthday, the cutest sweetest most sensitve (at the time) guy who I met through mutual friends asked me out. He was my first real boyfriend ever, and has been (on ...

A.   22 April 2009: I am so sorry that you have to go through this. No one deserves to feel and be treated this way. I was in a very emotionally abusive relationship for a time so I hope that my advice can help you. Ditch this guy and cut all contact. That is the main ... (read in full...)

Help! Am I pregnant?

Q.   I had unprotected sex then some blood came three days after lasting for four days and my period usually came for a full seven days. My period was really due 9 days before I saw this blood. I'm feeling really sick lately, urinating often etc. Am I ...

A.   22 April 2009: Despite the bleeding there is a chance that you might be pregnant. If you're really worried you could always go see a doctor, or you could always go out and buy a pregnancy test. Good luck... (read in full...)

How do I survive the next two months?

Q.   My boyfriend has been going away during the week to school for the past two months. He drives three hours sunday night and comes back friday nights. It was only supposed to be for two months and I was so excited that he would be home at the end of ...

A.   18 April 2009: I just don't know. He wants to join the army when he's finished with school. It's like one thing after another that is dragging the two of us apart. I am tired of constantly being seperated from him. And then it almost feels like he doesn't even ... (read in full...)

Did my 15 year old boyfriend leave me because I wasn't pregnant?

Q.   My ex boyfriend is fifteen and I'm fourteen. we were dating for around three months before we broke it off, but we had other 'flings' prior to that. Needless to say, I fell for him long ago, and I never got back up. My ex lives about two hours aw...

A.   18 February 2009: He was 15. 15 year old boys don't have children on their minds. They basically are still children themselves. Put it this way....had you turned out to have been pregnant he would not have stayed with you to help you out and you would have ended in... (read in full...)

I got fired because I'm pregnant!

Q.   I'm 5 mouths pregnant and recently got fired because of it (I was a waiter). My ex-boss always had it out for me since day one said they needed more "skinner" waitress who could got more tips (so he could pay them less). When I told my husband about ...

A.   18 February 2009: That is total discrimination and it is illegal. For an employer to fire you because you are pregnant is 100% illegal and he could get in serious trouble for it.... (read in full...)

Missed period has me concerned

Q.   Im in 8th grade and have had my period since 7th. I've never had a normal week, so i go off last months week. This month we have 5 days left and i still haven't gotten my period. I do have stomach pain and cramps like normal. I have not been ...

A.   27 January 2009: Don't worry about it hon. Honestly it took me almost 3 years before I was getting a regular period every month. You're young and it will take time, but if you are really concerned talk to your mom. She'll probably have the most answers for you... (read in full...)

Should I stay? OR should I go? I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop!

Q.   I am a single mom of a 17 year old who's father passed away when he was 3 years old. I have been dating my boyfriend on and off for about 4 years now. I spend most of my free time with both my son and my boyfriend. My boyfriend says I am close to ...

A.   27 January 2009: Ditch this loser!! If he makes you feel this way then trust me nothing good is going to come of this. I went though a guy that was almost exactly the same. He is not worth your time or your love if he makes you feel like crap. There are so many ... (read in full...)

What age were you when you lost YOUR virginity? (I was 23)

Q.   This is kind of an idle question I suppose. I've noticed and been kind of alarmed by a large number of sex questions being asked by kids in the 13-15 year old age range. (It seems awfully young to me.) I'd like to have kids of my own some day ...

A.   12 January 2009: I am currently 18 Lost my virginity a couple months ago when I was still 17. If you ask me people are having sex way too young. I don't believe in the whole "wait until you're married" thing but fooling around and having sex when you're as y... (read in full...)

Have been taking the pill on schedule but since last night I sleep a lot. Wake up wanting to eat and then I just don't feel good. Is it stress... or pregnancy?

Q.   ok. Today is saturday. I went over my boyfriend house monday and wednesday of the week. He nutted in me both times but im on the pill. Ive been taking the pill everyday on schedule but ever since last night i havent been feeling like myself. After i ...

A.   6 September 2008: It could be that your body is just reacting to the pill. You can sometimes experience minor side effects from the pill even if you have been taking it for awhile. And if you are really worried you could always take a pregnancy test though it is very ... (read in full...)

I want a baby but I have no boyfriend and am only 12.

Q.   i want a baby but im only 12 years of age. im a single,im good with babys i baby sit my cosin 2. i feel like im ready, but am i. how can have a baby without a boyfreind....

A.   5 June 2008: Having a baby at 12 is TOO YOUNG!!! I'm almost 18 and I know I wont be ready to start a family for at least another 7-8 years. You're frankly too young for any type of commitment like that, and that poor baby's life would be absolute hell. My ... (read in full...)

I'm decided to have sex at 12. Concerned about the pain though!...

Q.   help im 12 years old and me n my boyfriend want sex i know people say your too young and wait til your older but i can't wait til im older. we both love each other so much we cant stand being a way from each other. im not scared at all but what hap...

A.   10 April 2008: Honestly I don't think you're ready. I know that no one can tell you what to do but if my younger sister was to be asking the same thing...you are not ready. You need to think about everything you're willing to give up and the consequences of having ... (read in full...)

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