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How can I bring back my interest in sex?

Q.   Hi there, I am currently in a very serious relationship with my fiance who i have been seeing for 6 years. We have a little girl of 2 years. Lately, within the last 6 months i have had no desire to want sex (at all). I had the mirena coil put ...

A.   20 July 2010:  Lack of sex drive (lack of libido) is common in women, but quite rare in men. The American Medical Association has estimated that several million US women suffer from what doctors there call 'female sexual arousal disorder' (FSAD). Howev... (read in full...)

How can I improve my posture?

Q.   i am 5 feet and my husband height 6.2 .;i have a bad habit that i walk with bent shoulder and neck...like old..i want to overcome this...and want to walk straight...sit straight...any body help me...any exercise any suggestion..it also destroy my ...

A.   20 July 2010: I have found that your posture, or the strength of you back that allows you to stand up straight, is directly proportional to the strength of your abdominal muscles. The stronger they are the lighter the load you will have on your lower back ... (read in full...)

How can I stop my period cramps? They are becoming unbearable!

Q.   So heres the deal. My past few periods I've been getting very painful INTENSE cramps and I mean INTENSE. I'll have to miss softball/volleyball games, practices just because of my cramps. They've gotten so painful, I've actually cried a couple times ...

A.   20 July 2010:  Lots of girls experience cramps before or during their periods. Cramps are caused by prostaglandins (say: pross-tuh-glan-dunz), chemicals a girl's body produces to make the muscles of the uterus contract. The contracting muscles help push the blood ... (read in full...)

My morning sickness is lasting all day! Help!

Q.   I am about 10 weeks pregnant and morning sickness seems to be a bother any time of the day. I had a prescription for pregnancy nausea pills from the doctor, but it is $50 for 30 little pills. Which only last about 10 days. When I have them to ...

A.   20 July 2010: Pregnancy morning sickness occurs in 50 to 80% of new mom's to be. It's unfortunate that for many, the morning sickness will strike all through the day and not just in the morning. Most cases of morning sickness occur between the 4th and 6th week of ... (read in full...)

Could a prior abortion affect my fertility?

Q.   When i was 15 i had an abortion, at the time i thought i was doing the right thing and now 4 years later i think about the baby i could of had everyday! i regret what i have done but i can't change the past. I have been with my bf for 5 years now ...

A.   19 July 2010: Probably not. However, in rare cases, multiple dilations and curettages (the cleaning out of the uterus, also known as a D&C) can cause some scarring at the top of the cervix or inside the uterus. A procedure called hysteroscopy (when a small came... (read in full...)

How do you know when you are ovulating?

Q.   how do i know when am ovulating?...

A.   19 July 2010:  Ovulation normally occurs every month, when one of the eggs is released from the ovaries and travels down through the fallopian tubes. Women usually experience certain physical signs when they are ovulating. Regularly following these simple step... (read in full...)

I used my mascara stick for pleasure and now I'm having pain

Q.   i started to use my mascara stick to pleasure me i did it so hard and fast that i bleed and i keep doin it bt i thought it was normal because wen i first had sex i bleed. but now near my appendix (right side) they av started to hurt. wat shud ido? ...

A.   19 July 2010: hi. you should not put them sort of things in you vagina. but that might not be wot is caursing the bleeding and the pain. i have the same problem sometimes during sex i also bleed and its very painfull on my right hand side and i went to the ... (read in full...)

He wants to have sex in the bathroom??

Q.   ok so me and my bofriend want to have sex.......but the thing is hes not a virgin and i am.......he wants to do it in the bathroom and idk if i could do it in the bathroom.........and idk if i want to do it with him or not.......how would we do it ...

A.   19 July 2010: hi, first you need to decide if you actually want to have sex with him. if you decide you want to then i think you should do it were you feel comfortable its up to you were you want your first time to be. and in the future you can have sex in ... (read in full...)

Would it be cheating to have sex with my ex?

Q.   Hi guys. Im 37weeks pregnant and my bf is not here all the time and ive been insecure.anyway lately ive been on the fone with a guy i dated whom we neva broke up but he is in another province and we saw ea other in 2008 i think.but we dig each ...

A.   19 July 2010: hi, yes it would be cheating, it would not be fair on your bf. i think you should talk to your bf about feeling insecure when he is not around. it wouldnt be a good idea to have sex with ur ex. you are prob felling like that becouse you are pregnant ... (read in full...)

Help get me free

Q.   me and my friend were drunk and had sex, and i didnt think anything of it. but now she is litteraly obsessed with me, and i dont have feelings for her like that. i cant tell her i dont like her that ship has sailed,and idk what else i can possibly...

A.   19 July 2010: hi, i think you should sit down together and just tell her the truth about how you feel... (read in full...)

Should I be worried about her sexual past

Q.   I've recently found out some things from my girlfriend of nearly a year's sexual history which have made me think. I'm 23 and she's 30. We met and she was married, we started out having an affair and very quickly she separated from her husband and ...

A.   19 July 2010: hi, i think you should forget about the past and consentrate on the present. she was only young when she did that stuff. i think you should talk to her about how you feel about it, and get it off you chest. no i dont think you should be worried ... (read in full...)

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