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writes:i started to use my mascara stick to pleasure me i did it so hard and fast that i bleed and i keep doin it bt i thought it was normal because wen i first had sex i bleed. but now near my appendix (right side) they av started to hurt. wat shud ido? will i be able to have kids? Reply to this Question
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (19 July 2010):
 You bleed during first time sex because it breaks your hymen. Any bleeding caused by events since then is usually caused either by an internal scratch or loosened menstrual fluid. If it's hurting it's probably a scratch and if it persists, go to a nurse. Don't be embarrassed, lots of people masterbate with objects, I've heard of girls masterbating with hairbrushes (and getting a bit of it stuck inside!), screwdriver handles and even a pair of scissors(?!)
To prevent it happening again, I suggest you buy yourself a vibrator, either from a store, over the internet, or get a friend to get it for you. Also sterilise it with diluted savlon/dettol/disinfectant before every use to prevent getting an infection =]
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reader, vicky121087 +, writes (19 July 2010):
hi. you should not put them sort of things in you vagina. but that might not be wot is caursing the bleeding and the pain. i have the same problem sometimes during sex i also bleed and its very painfull on my right hand side and i went to the doctors at first they fobed me off but i insested to see a gynecologist and they found out i had something called ENDOMETRISIS, so i think you should go to your doctors and get checked to make sure everything is ok
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010): my ex dared me to put somthing up my vagina so i put my mascara and it felt reali nice and now me and my bf have fun at night threw the phone and i use my stick but wen i dont do it hard i dont reali bleed but wen i do i bleed. but i thought it was normal because i bled wen i had sex first. but the other night i was using my stick and i cummed and black came out with it and i went for a wee i wipped myself and the tissue was black.my bf and friend are tellin me to go to doctors but i cant! please help me.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (19 July 2010):
 First off, don't stick things like that in your vagina. It's pokey and sharp. You should only stick things made for vaginal insertion, like a penis, fingers, or a sex toy. Sex toys are cheap online, they work well, I'd recommend getting one of those. Now it sounds like you've either given yourself an infection, or like you've poked something a little hard and injured yourself. You're just gonna have to go explain what happened to your doctor. Trust me, they've heard it all including live animals up the butt so don't be embarrassed.
And think about the having kids thing rationally for a minute. A mascara stick is 3 in. long TOPS. Your baby bearing bits are WAY up in there, at least 7 inches back. They are resilient little bits, made to function through EVERYTHING. The odds of you sterilizing yourself with a mascara stick are lower than you getting a car crash on the way to the doctors.
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reader, Myrrh +, writes (19 July 2010):
 Hello. As others have said, do go to your doctor or your surgery triage nurse and explained what happened as it sounds as if youve done yourself an injury. Bleeding when you did it isnt normal. It might be wise to invest in a proper "sex toy" for future use as they are designed for such purposes. In the meantime, do get checked out. Trust me, doctors and nurses have seen and heard everything! So dont be embarrassed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010): Go to the doctor or maybe the GUM clinic if there's one near you and tell them what the problem is. Dear Cupid is not the place for medical advice and that is what you need. Honestly, just think it through- how will we know if you can have kids or not?
You're mature enough to have had sex, so presumably you are mature enough to seek medical help if you need it, even if it is embarrassing. Go and get checked out.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 July 2010):
Get to a doctor and get checked. Now. And be honest with the doctor, as you might have an infection.
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