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Hi

I'm 25, grew up in London. Went through a bit myself and figured maybe some one else could learn from it.

Hell, we all know you can't make all the mistakes yourself so you may aswel learn from others'.

Ness x

When I woke up my sister in law was in her underwear. Does she want to have sex with me?

Q.   I'm trying to figure out if my SIL wants to have sex with me. I work at night so I've get off in the early morning hours. Sometimes before I go home(1hour 30min Away) I sleep at my SiL's house for about an hour or two. So one night she says I forgot ...

A.   11 September 2008: Well not sure what her intentions are but you shouldnt really be sharing a bed with her anyway. You should probably take the couch or something....? Dont know....... (read in full...)

I need some Agony Aunts to keep me in their prayers!

Q.   Hi, I'm one of your agony aunts, but this time I need your help. I would just ask you all send me love, strength and support for what I'm about to go through. My husband's viza has not been granted, and we have to go for interview next week. You ...

A.   3 September 2008: sure thing :)... (read in full...)

How do I get over someone that I have to talk to every day on the phone for work purposes?

Q.   Long distance relationships don't work. I know that. I have to talk to this woman daily for work purposes but it got personal after hours about 2 months ago. We have very little in common yet get along great. Until about 2 weeks ago. The phone ...

A.   27 August 2008: :( I know the feeling, sorry i know this is a page for answers, but i dont have, I just hope you find some comfort in that I feel the same way. I have a colleague I got on with great. I mean amazingly well. But he turned cold, each time I tried to ... (read in full...)

My family is pretty messed up, and I feel I get the hardest time when I haven't done anything wrong. Please help.

Q.   Hello, My name is Emy, im 14 and I'm from Cardiff in Wales. This isn't your usual question. My family is pretty messed up, and I feel I get the hardest time when I haven't done anything wrong. My mother had an affair with her sisters husband whic...

A.   27 August 2008: I think you should def speak to your farthe, even if he doesn want to accept responsibility for you he should have the decency to give you the time to let you know abit about your history. Further as for your mother, you need a parent, but from the ... (read in full...)

Am I depressed or just stuck in a rut?

Q.   This question probably has nothing to do with relationships or dating i just needed some advice. I hate my job all i do is cry and I feel I always get critisised. The only reason im staying here is because I owe people money and that I have rent to ...

A.   18 August 2008: Hi I think a lot of us can relate to this feeling. Being in aa rut can be depressing...so prehaps you're a little of both. Most times we feel we're not in control of our lives and this makes us feel even more like we're going around in circles and ... (read in full...)

I don't know how to show my ex I still like him without making a fool of myself...

Q.   My boyfriend and I recently split up and I want him back.He like's someone else but still likes me a bit.I really dont know how to show i like him without making a fool of myself.Does anyone know any good tips on getting your ex boyfriend back. T...

A.   17 August 2008: I think the best thing you can do is just be honest. Theres no shame in that. You simply still like him, if you tell him and he says no, then you have your answer, and you wont have made a fool of yourself as you wont be going around trying to make ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend looks a gay porn! Does that mean he's bisexual?

Q.   Hi there, I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, we are very much in love and talking about marrage and children etc. My problem is i recently found out that he's been looking up gay porn on the internet. When i confronted him a...

A.   17 August 2008: sorry to be clear i'm not implying you'r boyf is homophobic, just that gay porn does not equal gay man. Chin up :D... (read in full...)

My boyfriend looks a gay porn! Does that mean he's bisexual?

Q.   Hi there, I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, we are very much in love and talking about marrage and children etc. My problem is i recently found out that he's been looking up gay porn on the internet. When i confronted him a...

A.   17 August 2008: This only sort of points toward what i am trying to say http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1589/is_n730/ai_20799514 but it should display that even men who are very against homosexuality can be aroused by gay porn, it doesnt necessarily ... (read in full...)

I'm so scared that I have lost all my family. What can I do?

Q.   well to make it short im 17 and my dad left when i was nine my mum was great through it all but after 3 months of her and my dad spliting up she got pregnant with twins well me and my dad didnt speak for 6 years and i have just become in contac...

A.   16 August 2008: Aly Don't be scared. Your parent's will always be there for you when you truly need them. I love, love, love my sister but i dont speak to her everyday. My mum and i get on like a house on fire but we never call one another. Sometimes distance... (read in full...)

Do we have a chance? And do you have any thoughts on his behavior?

Q.   i was seeing some guy..not going out..just meeting up and stuff but we werent serious. he found out i slept with someone else and went mad and wouldnt speak to me. i went to see him for the first time since this all happened last night and we were ...

A.   16 August 2008: Hey If you were only being casual his response to you sleeeping with some one else seems a bit much, unless he thought you were properly going out. Only other thing is he seems to be bitter about it and you both may just end up trying to get each... (read in full...)

We were starting a relationship and he went back to his ex. Should I stay angry? Or should I move on?

Q.   This guy at work liked me and we were starting to develop something between us when his ex came along when she saw what was happening and he went back with her. This happened a few weeks ago and I'm finding it very difficult to be anywhere near ...

A.   11 August 2008: If you continue to be angry you'll only cause bitternes in your own life. It wont affect him, and it wont change the sitation. Your best bet is to try and let go of this, you owe it to yourself more than any one else. You dont want to go to work ... (read in full...)

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